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My honey's brother has come to live in a home here where we live. He can't live with us. It is a home for mentally handicapped people and he is unable to take care of himself. But he is also free to come and go as he pleases. He has his own room and we take him shopping for whatever he needs. Sometimes we use his money (social security) and other times he doesn't have enough money so our money is being used to get him what he wants.
So honey takes him to the stores to buy food, clothing etc. Most of the time his brother wants to buy ciggarettes, beer and magazines of the disgusting kind. He gets really drunk on the beer and says he can't live without it and the magazines....ick.
My honey says his brother is addicted, that he doesn't want to be clean, and so he needs these things and if he wants them we should get them for him.
I feel that by buying him these things we are in sin. Is there a line..or are we also in sin by being a part of it? I just think if Jesus was right behind me in the checkout line there is no way I would do it. Actually I don't. And I would easily tell his brother no. But honey buys him whatever he wants. He feels we don't have the right to tell his brother what he can do with his money. And sometimes it is our money when his SS runs out.
So to me it is the "action" of us doing this. Or is his brother the only one responsible for his own sin?
I should say also that his brother is NOT a Christian and wants nothing to do with it.
So honey takes him to the stores to buy food, clothing etc. Most of the time his brother wants to buy ciggarettes, beer and magazines of the disgusting kind. He gets really drunk on the beer and says he can't live without it and the magazines....ick.
My honey says his brother is addicted, that he doesn't want to be clean, and so he needs these things and if he wants them we should get them for him.
I feel that by buying him these things we are in sin. Is there a line..or are we also in sin by being a part of it? I just think if Jesus was right behind me in the checkout line there is no way I would do it. Actually I don't. And I would easily tell his brother no. But honey buys him whatever he wants. He feels we don't have the right to tell his brother what he can do with his money. And sometimes it is our money when his SS runs out.
So to me it is the "action" of us doing this. Or is his brother the only one responsible for his own sin?
I should say also that his brother is NOT a Christian and wants nothing to do with it.