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I have been married for 24 years. Months ago my youngest was diagnosed with aspergers. It has put a great strain on the marriage. So much so, my husband became depressed and went to counseling about it. In the three weeks he was there the counselor convinced my husband he needs to separate from me because *I'm* the reasons he's depressed. I'm devastated. I already have the strain of a 15 year old who has so much anxiety, she won't go to school. Now I have the strain of the man, who only told me a month and a half ago he would never leave me, and wanted me to live with him the rest of his life, that he wants to separate.
I know this is my fault. Our marriage hit a real rough spot 22 years ago and I told God, if he healed my family I would give up drinking caffeine. But I didn't keep the promise. I always felt guilty about it, but I thought I needed caffeine to get through my day. I asked God many times to forgive me for breaking my promise, but I guess God didn't. Now, I've quit caffeine but I think I did it way too late.
I'm afraid God is telling me, too little too late. Not only will this leave my alone, but at a critical time in my daughter's life in which she has enough troubles, this has to happen to her as well.
I don't know what to do. I've been praying and praying but I fear there is no hope. I know you have to have believe God will answer your prayers to have them answered. But how can I do that, when I am in such despair? Jesus, help my unbelief.
If my daughter didn't need me so much and I didn't think I would go to hell, I'd end it all now.
My husband has agreed to marriage counseling, but he tells me point blank he doesn't think it will work. I know marriage counseling can't work miracles, but I know Jesus can.
I know God is punishing me for breaking my promise. I can't face the idea I will be alone for the rest of my life.
I know this is my fault. Our marriage hit a real rough spot 22 years ago and I told God, if he healed my family I would give up drinking caffeine. But I didn't keep the promise. I always felt guilty about it, but I thought I needed caffeine to get through my day. I asked God many times to forgive me for breaking my promise, but I guess God didn't. Now, I've quit caffeine but I think I did it way too late.
I'm afraid God is telling me, too little too late. Not only will this leave my alone, but at a critical time in my daughter's life in which she has enough troubles, this has to happen to her as well.
I don't know what to do. I've been praying and praying but I fear there is no hope. I know you have to have believe God will answer your prayers to have them answered. But how can I do that, when I am in such despair? Jesus, help my unbelief.
If my daughter didn't need me so much and I didn't think I would go to hell, I'd end it all now.
My husband has agreed to marriage counseling, but he tells me point blank he doesn't think it will work. I know marriage counseling can't work miracles, but I know Jesus can.
I know God is punishing me for breaking my promise. I can't face the idea I will be alone for the rest of my life.