Marriage on the line!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Angelwilliams06302007

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I just recently found out that my husband lied to me Wednesday like he had an affair and I told him we could work it out. But he didn't want to come to find out he told me that to make me mad so he could get to Jackson to have an affari with a woman he met on Facebook. When he saw that would not work he started doing everything in his power to hurt me say he wanted a divorce and everything until he pushed me over the edge. Before he left he told me his check was short so he could not pay the rent then I found out he had gotten paid enough for the rent and more and He has took it to Jackson with his mistress. I put him out an hour before he left. How can a man that says he loves his wife and kids let them get put out on the street. I am so confused what should I do any advice.
 
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Jezreel

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That is how these narcisstic selfish men work. They will twist things around to make it look like your fault. I really feel for you and I get angry for you. For right now it may sound hard but I would use this time to worship and praise God and give the burden to Jesus. I understand how hard this will be for you. If you are able to do that, his mistress in the end will get rid of him because she is not going to want a man that treats his own children so badly, we will pray that her eyes would be opened and that she would kick him out. When she kicks him out, do NOT take him back right away. Get help from the system for your rent etc. The system will also go after him for child support etc. All God to use the system to correct him and get him in a position with God. He will only come back because he needs a place to stay. Do not make it easy for him. If God be for you, who can be against you. You are in the winning side. As long as you are obeying Christ and being sincere with him for a relationship, this will turn out for you and your children to have a happier more joyful life. Just do not pray or use God for only when you are in trouble. Some people never pray or need God until God allows them to be put in a bad situation and others, God is just purifying. God is a jealous God and he wants all of us. Honestly, being this age I am, I would not want a man back that would do that to me and my children. God has so much better for you. Pray and seek God and see how he is going to use this, and, use the system to go after him! That is better than our judging, allow God to use the system to correct him. When they take his money, his mistress is not going to like that unless she is severly desperate like a lot of women are today, I just cannot believe what women choose to have just for sex! Yikes!
 
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Sassafras

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I just found your post. I am sitting miles from you in another country asking the same questions! Why do men feel they need to be unfaithful. Is it the boredom and restriction of normal everyday life. Don't they think that we want excitement and adventure too. Just remember that you have done nothing wrong and God will help and protect you. Feel God's power within you to make the right decisions for you and your family. When you're in the middle of the mess it is hard to see the right way. Take heed of the love and messages around you and I hope you find the assurance sent by God to keep you safe.
 
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Lovelyone22

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I don't no why my husband is sometimes mean I bought him something that I no he really can use and he came home from work and I put it right there so when he go in the room he would see it in stead he did not even use it he took the one that needs throwing away and never say thankyou did not once say anything about it as if he don't even care that I try to look out for him and now he seems to be mad at me when I should be mad.
 
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Lovelyone22 said:
I don't no why my husband is sometimes mean I bought him something that I no he really can use and he came home from work and I put it right there so when he go in the room he would see it in stead he did not even use it he took the one that needs throwing away and never say thankyou did not once say anything about it as if he don't even care that I try to look out for him and now he seems to be mad at me when I should be mad.
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This is in no way your fault, so dont think I am saying that (sometimes people misunderstand my words, lol). I can say as a man, that sometimes we are attached to the old broken things; sometimes they are like a safety blanket for us. and maybe his anger is his own pride, we I was married I succumbed to the same problem; my wife would do something for me and I felt like she thought I wasnt capable of doing it myself (until we grow up it messes with our macho HeMan attitudes), he needs to realize, as I did, that we are called to be one flesh and just like we look out for our own bodies, we need to look out and help our spouses and allow and cherish when they help us.
 
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