My husband doesn't love me :'( or care about me

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Stanelake

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... present to him someone who knows what she believes said:
It works is your hands are clean.
at times we are the last to know what harm we do and end up blaming others.
one once said ' hurt people hurt others' both of you are hurting and are likely to do hurtful things to each other- especially if they are not designed from a biblical base. with prayer and some wisdom a solution can be found.
' he who wins a soul is wise'
 
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I am in a very painful and hurtful situation right now, too. There is nothing I can do to fix it, although there are lots of things I could do to make it worse.

What I do have control of is me. I took "me" to the sanctuary of my church so I could be where I knew the Lord had been a very real presence many times. I went on my knees, literally and spiritually. I waited on the Lord for two hours. God wiped me clean and filled me. When God fills you, there is no room for anger or hate. God fills you with love, and you can quietly wait on Him.

I had to go to the doctor that afternoon who told me of my high blood pressure. I told him the world had changed, it was a different place, and how could he not see this! He said God was still the same, the world was the same, it was only my perception of it that had changed. He told me to go to a happy place and he would come back to recheck my blood pressure. It was down 40 points!
 
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letti

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I am at least glad to hear it sounds as if GOD has granted you greater inner strength dont ever give up with or without him you will be okay im not saying its not going to hurt but stay strong and dont give up.
 
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Compassionate

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Hey sister if all fail i love u n god loves u u can't luv anything else if u dnt luv urself work on urself n urself thoughts read de word to renew urself mind even if u dnt understand n always put on a smile 4 no reason works wonders it send signal to ur brain de response is gud fo de whole body n ur action (act of faith) solve nothing wait on god work on urself show dat u trust him he'll giv u answers when ur calm.u can't change ur husband act loving ull see improve urself stay on de word bring happy atmosphere in ur home ur in charge god put u de to help not to be unstable but calm mind n act on love always ull see
 
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Bud

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GOD KNOWS YOUR PAIN,YOU HAVE TO TALK TO HIM TO FEEL HIS POWER,TRUST HIM
I SAY THIS AS I WAS THE GIVER OF PAIN IN MY FAMILY,I TREATED EVERYONE AS PROPERTY FOR ME TO ENJOY,
NEEDLESS TO SAY OVER THE YEARS I FINALLY STOPED MY CHASEING,LATER I FOUND GOD, NOW I FIND HIM MORE THAN HELPFULL,HE CARES.
I AM ALSO GOING TO PRAY TO GOD TO RELEAVE PAIN AN INFLICTIONS OF MORE.
 
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Ndoda

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My Sister in Christ...I'm very sorry to hear about your husband. I will pray for you hardly. I'm from Tanzania.
 
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We are living in the time of tribulation, and what you are telling us is happening to you is what it is all about. The Kinsey Reort of 1948 told us your pain would be coming. It was a report of our sexual behavior and it showed a complete ignorance of how sex and family intertwined, or of sex as God created it.

I am 88, and have had a godly marriage. All my children and grandchildren keep to godly sex and marriage. But still I am part of the tribulation. All of them completely ignore that God asks them to respect me as the means God used to give them life. They serve on church councils, they win athletic prizes, they have a full life and leave me out of all of it. I am completely shunned. My hearing is gone, I am almost blind, so I am no use to them so they prefer to have me out of their life.

We have been told this will happen. You and I are only asked to give up on family, soon it will be giving up our very life if we hold fast to our life in the Lord.

Do read Daniel and Revelation to see where this is heading. We don't have family, nor do we live in a world like God outlined for us. But we can still hold fast to what is of God, so we have much much more than those who are deserting God for their own fleshly way.