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Hi all,
hope someone can help me with this problem.It regards safety of the child in front of the web and TV.
8 years ago my brother got home a Moroccan girl with her baby named Fatima only 1 years old. Sincerely their staying should have been short only a few days until the girl found a job an an house where live. Instead they both live within my family's house.
The baby now is 9 years old and I'm very worried for her mental health. My brother yell at me everytime i try to teach her something or when I tell her that something she did it's wrong: he always tells me in front of her "Shut down your mouth". It happens my brother told me and my mom that he took care and he is going to take care of the child but really he doesn't. The needs of the child are on my and my mom shoulders.
He always let her since she was younger than actually to use computer by herself so she can visit sites inappropiated for her age. The same happens with TV: she can watch whatever she wants and whenever. Since my brother didn't do anything for the safety of the child on the web I did something. I add a program one of the programs to limit the web visiting (parenteral filter) by her on PC. My brother discovered it yelled at me and removed it so actually the child can still visit freely the net.
The child worries me because she sometimes talks about inappropriate things, she asks absurd things and she also tried to get undressed in front of me more than once. I don't know if this her behaviour has been inspired by what she watched at TV or on the web or is due to some kind of abuse she faced because of my brother (I remember that he raped me when we were younger and he has a kind of obsession with sex).
Thanks in advance for your advices.
Cris
hope someone can help me with this problem.It regards safety of the child in front of the web and TV.
8 years ago my brother got home a Moroccan girl with her baby named Fatima only 1 years old. Sincerely their staying should have been short only a few days until the girl found a job an an house where live. Instead they both live within my family's house.
The baby now is 9 years old and I'm very worried for her mental health. My brother yell at me everytime i try to teach her something or when I tell her that something she did it's wrong: he always tells me in front of her "Shut down your mouth". It happens my brother told me and my mom that he took care and he is going to take care of the child but really he doesn't. The needs of the child are on my and my mom shoulders.
He always let her since she was younger than actually to use computer by herself so she can visit sites inappropiated for her age. The same happens with TV: she can watch whatever she wants and whenever. Since my brother didn't do anything for the safety of the child on the web I did something. I add a program one of the programs to limit the web visiting (parenteral filter) by her on PC. My brother discovered it yelled at me and removed it so actually the child can still visit freely the net.
The child worries me because she sometimes talks about inappropriate things, she asks absurd things and she also tried to get undressed in front of me more than once. I don't know if this her behaviour has been inspired by what she watched at TV or on the web or is due to some kind of abuse she faced because of my brother (I remember that he raped me when we were younger and he has a kind of obsession with sex).
Thanks in advance for your advices.
Cris