what if you find out that your wife or husband is a wolf dress in sheep

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jason75

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i been going throught lots of thinking the past few month. Now divorce and wondering is it possible that we could have married a wolf dress in sheep. What are the opinion on this. Thanks
 
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nimbus3852

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Individuals have varying levels of maturity.
 
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jason75

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So then their is no chance for a wife or husband to be a wolf. Then the bible was only talking about single people that can be a wolf.
 
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nimbus3852

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The term has evolved from it's original roots. Feel free to use it as you like. However, Matthew 7:15 is speaking of the ministry rather than one's love life.
 
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IMO, it depends on your ministry. Wolves are sent to end/interfere with it.
 
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Ugly

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i been going throught lots of thinking the past few month. Now divorce and wondering is it possible that we could have married a wolf dress in sheep. What are the opinion on this. Thanks
Opinions on what exactly? You didn't really ask anything. You said you think your wife was a wolf in sheeps clothing and what are our opinions on that. None, because i don't know your wife, so i can't make any sort of guess.
 
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Yanickname

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Yes there is a chance!

Mine has evil spirits living in her and they wont come out.
I never noticed that her 5 sided starfish tatoo was a hidden pentagram and that she was being handled by this crazy hypnotist.

So yes, she was a wolf. She could sorta pray and go to church and be nice when she wanted too, but as soon as i found out, the demons tried to argue with me about leaving her and that they have been there her whole life. They make her do incense with candles that i thought were just candles. They make her wear revealing clothes and put occultic jewelry on that i never paid attention too. This whole time I was in love with demons.

They are in my 2 daughters as well. Its crazy whats going on right now.
Im not joking either.

Just saw this post and wanted to tell you that when you start getting close to God the enemy will reveal himself thru everyone he has access too.
 

Agricola

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This term wolf in sheeps clothing is misused a lot as Nimbus posted.

Was she someone pretending to be a Christian just to get the person she wanted? Many people pretend to be Christians to do this, they play the game which is not difficult at first, but then longer relationship goes on and more serious it gets, the harder it is for person to live life as a Christian. A spiritually dead person can not be transformed by Holy Spirit, so things become a burden and chore instead of a natural progression and changing by God. This is when playing at being a Christian becomes impossible to continue and things such as marriages fall apart.

OF course without any knoweldge of the situation this is just an observation in general.
 
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It is very possible. I knew someone who met a man that she was attracted to as a friend at first. Turns out he got with her best friend who he confided to as pertained to his sensual interest in her friend.
Being a romantic this friend shared the confidences her friend had shared with her so that this guy could see if he had anything in common with the woman. But what they guy did instead is use that information to create a story that made it seem like they were soul mates.
All because he thought this woman he was interested in was rich. Due to things he'd seen as pertained to her career, lifestyle, etc...

He was an enormous wolf in sheeps clothing. Once he found out, and after the marriage as it turns out, that she wasn't rich he turned into full wolf. They divorced shortly after his true colors started showing through.

That's why it is vital to take your time in a relationship where you're considering spending what is the rest of your life with that person.
Do the math. How old are you now? And how long do you think you have to live? Imagine spending those decades with that one and only forever. If we can take a vow to spend forever we can take our time getting to that ceremony that makes it official.
 

presidente

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If your spouse has demons, you are still married. Some people might think, "This is a wolf. I should divorce him/her." I don't see that in the Bible.

But I suppose it could happen that someone falls in love with a person who claims to be a believer but lives like the devil.

It's too bad married folks are discouraged from posting in the singles section. It would be good to post to the singles some warning signs and warn them to be very careful to make sure their spouses are serious about the Lord. It seems like some church folks will just marry someone who claims to be a believer. They tick off the box in their mind and don't consider the person's fruit. When I was looking for a wife, her spiritual life was very important to me. My wife really impressed me. She'd pray before she left the house and things like that, and her faith was very important in her decision-making processes. I could see that her faith in Christ was central in her life. That's something she was looking for in me.

I guess the problem with wolves in sheep's clothing though is their propensity to fool people into thinking they are sheep.
 

Angela53510

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I think you need to pray for your spouse, that God will save them, and the marriage.

As for this demon nonsense, if it was that bad, you should have seen it before you got married. Just because someone has a temper, or overspends or whatever, doesn't mean they are demon possessed. Any common mental illness can cause that.

If you are talking adultery, you do have grounds for divorce, but that still doesn't mean the spouse is demon possessed.

God can change any heart, always remember that!