Does starting a new family in GOD means that the devil attacks even more.

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dianna

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I myself am a babe in Christ, just recently started coming back into the LORD. But it's like hey you are really here you know the feeling that GOD can only give. And we all know as Christians that feeling can be overwellming. When GOD hands is in it and you really know that it is GOD.
But recently it seems like the devil himself has stepped in everysince I got my husband and son in the church where I go to. I mean GOD ir blessing my husband and I, but it seems like everything else just wants to attack or get in between of what we're trying to accomplish with GOD. He really is a good man just doesn't know how to communicate with his wife. The friend in me we do just fine when we talking like friends. The lover in me doesn't have to say a word. And he doesn't even like talking about the kids. Because that goes back to the talking to the wife.
I don't know, I just need prayer. And a little love, and maybe a little attention am I wrong for that ? I mean I still love him. He think he just doesn't how much, it's like ......... i'm saying one thing and he's hearing another
JUST TRYING TO KEEP MY FAMILY IN THE WAY OF GOD.... but i don't know what I"M doing.
 
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I'm sorry to ear that our having problems, wihle I am only 16, I'm always available to talk about anything despite my limited knowledge.

Just curious before I say anything else, were your husband and children of a different faith before you got them into your church?
 
loveschild

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Women want to talk and men don't want to talk or listen. Isn't that normal. Men aren't like women and men aren't like women. Get a study book to help understand men. Lord help you.
 
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I disagree, men are very much like women, they need and want the same things we want... my husband talk more than I do. just when you want to talk to him maybe start the conversation off by letting him talk about himself.. and for awhile do this without talking about you.. then after naybe the third conversation let him know that you are very interested in him. then ask him is he interested in you .. if he say yes.. then tell him ne never ask you about you or he never tell you how/ ot if he is. tell him you need to heae it often and tell him why. and let him know that you feel the same as he does when you listen to him. and give him compliments. let him know that hat is apart of being lonly. when you lack that form of attention.

but it is so untrue to think men don't want to talk; they just want to talk more about themselves; and as we women are;; they love a good listner.
 
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oopsies

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dianna said:
I myself am a babe in Christ, just recently started coming back into the LORD. But it's like hey you are really here you know the feeling that GOD can only give. And we all know as Christians that feeling can be overwellming. When GOD hands is in it and you really know that it is GOD.
But recently it seems like the devil himself has stepped in everysince I got my husband and son in the church where I go to. I mean GOD ir blessing my husband and I, but it seems like everything else just wants to attack or get in between of what we're trying to accomplish with GOD. He really is a good man just doesn't know how to communicate with his wife. The friend in me we do just fine when we talking like friends. The lover in me doesn't have to say a word. And he doesn't even like talking about the kids. Because that goes back to the talking to the wife.
I don't know, I just need prayer. And a little love, and maybe a little attention am I wrong for that ? I mean I still love him. He think he just doesn't how much, it's like ......... i'm saying one thing and he's hearing another
JUST TRYING TO KEEP MY FAMILY IN THE WAY OF GOD.... but i don't know what I"M doing.
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James 4:7-8
Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. Come near to God and he will come near to you.
 
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dianna

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Well I can agree to all of that but ladies this sounds more like your thinking about men like their machines. They do have feelings , and I do listen and I do understand. ANd can quote verbatum what he just said. I work just as hard as he does I ask him about his day. I love him with GODs love. But the kind of spirit ya'll talking about sounds more Jezabell more than CHRIST...
Us women by men are held up to a different perspective. We're their walking heaven on earth. We know they need us, but they need to know we human too.... WE want to talk about our day too...... Not all the time to the extent that they do but just sometimes....
Love all ya'll no matter what....
 
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oopsies

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How about talk about God instead of one another? That way, neither of you will see each other as selfish when you each talk about yourselves.
 
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tryingtofindhim

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dianna said:
I myself am a babe in Christ, just recently started coming back into the LORD. But it's like hey you are really here you know the feeling that GOD can only give. And we all know as Christians that feeling can be overwellming. When GOD hands is in it and you really know that it is GOD.
But recently it seems like the devil himself has stepped in everysince I got my husband and son in the church where I go to. I mean GOD ir blessing my husband and I, but it seems like everything else just wants to attack or get in between of what we're trying to accomplish with GOD. He really is a good man just doesn't know how to communicate with his wife. The friend in me we do just fine when we talking like friends. The lover in me doesn't have to say a word. And he doesn't even like talking about the kids. Because that goes back to the talking to the wife.
I don't know, I just need prayer. And a little love, and maybe a little attention am I wrong for that ? I mean I still love him. He think he just doesn't how much, it's like ......... i'm saying one thing and he's hearing another
JUST TRYING TO KEEP MY FAMILY IN THE WAY OF GOD.... but i don't know what I"M doing.
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OH yes the devil attacks a Christian family so much more than a non-Christian; it only makes since. Don't give up. My advice is to connect with a strong Christian family and fellowship together.
 
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BobbyJoe

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If you are just getting back into or just into church the devil with go at you with near everything he has at his disposal. If God is working things in your life or those that are close to you the devil will do any and everything he can to stop you from going to church getting a good relationship with any and every one. If God is getting ready to put you into a ministry, Look out! You may be physicly attacked in numeroius ways. I have had that jerk to gouge my eyes and ears with darts that are needle sharp. I mean realy bad pain. He even put bluster like welts on my body and a whole lot more. Check out Job. James tells what we gotta do. Draw near to God and God will draw near to you. Submit yourself to him resist the devil and he will flee in due time. Even Peter had his bouts with the devil.
Feel blessed if he is harrasing you for you must be doing Gods will.
 
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dianna

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Now that spounds more like it , Not just submit to your husband if that's the case that's why so many women end up in divorces now. Because they allow there husbands to do and say anything they want to do to keep them happy. Not knowing a man is just what he is, a man. A man of this earth and he's going to take it as far as you let him. And loving a man more than GOD even if he is your husbsnd is a no,no. We all know our GOD is a jealous GOD. JUst like the lady said in the earlier post, stop thinking about yourselves and start thinking about GOD. Then you wouldn't feel so selffish talking about yourselves onces in a while.
Your husband is suppose to cover and have your back. We truely are a gift from GOD to each other. It all how you handle it, if you ask GOD what to do with this love that you have for another person on this earth. And face it we ain't easy to get along with all the time. When man and woman get together it's really like when worlds colide. So thanks to all the people who prayed for me and I'm learning so much thanks
 
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Yes just talk to each other about the lord and how you can help each other with their walk with God, keep god first in both your marriage and your own lives and everything else will fall into place :)
 
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dianna

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thank you very much,GOD is good isn't he, That was it that we have to help each other with our walk with GOD walk . Because I can't stand some women, when they make everything seem like it's the womans doing all the time.
Bring GOD into it and things do just fall into place.
Thank you
 
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asamanthinketh

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anything can change and there is a time for change and preparation that needs to occur to change
but from my experience live as God tells you to live to the best of your ability and it will work out
 
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