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Hello all,
I'm very new to this site and was looking for perhaps a little advice. I've talked to so many people about this, yet it still eats away at me. I've recently had one of the biggest arguments with my stepsisters that I've ever had and embarrassingly enough, all of it was broadcast over Facebook in the form of a status. My stepsisters had no reason to start the trouble with me and my sister to begin with (my sister harmlessly posted a photo of herself online, which one of my stepsisters felt need to make fun of via her Facebook status). I had had enough of their nonsense and publicly attacked them.
After blocking them on the social site, I thought I would be rid of their harassment for good. However, they still found ways to poison my life by continuing to talk badly of me and my family (when NONE of us were in contact with them) and even going so far as to get a police investigation going on my stepfather who supposedly inappropriately touched one of my stepsister's children (which I believe in my heart my stepfather would NEVER do). They have continued to bring me and my family down to the point where I have harbored much anger and dismay over the mere mention of their names. What they did to my family was wrong, but I realize that blowing up on a Facebook status wasn't the best way to handle the situation. I truly believe in my heart that their sole existence in life is to hurt and destroy my family.
A little background--this was not at all the first time they have done something such as this, and probably won't be the last time. I consider myself a Christian, who has temporarily fallen from where she once was as a child of God. Perhaps finding a proper church would help me to let go of some of the anger I have harbored. I just don't know where to turn from here. Any advice would be wonderful. Thank you all and God bless.
I'm very new to this site and was looking for perhaps a little advice. I've talked to so many people about this, yet it still eats away at me. I've recently had one of the biggest arguments with my stepsisters that I've ever had and embarrassingly enough, all of it was broadcast over Facebook in the form of a status. My stepsisters had no reason to start the trouble with me and my sister to begin with (my sister harmlessly posted a photo of herself online, which one of my stepsisters felt need to make fun of via her Facebook status). I had had enough of their nonsense and publicly attacked them.
After blocking them on the social site, I thought I would be rid of their harassment for good. However, they still found ways to poison my life by continuing to talk badly of me and my family (when NONE of us were in contact with them) and even going so far as to get a police investigation going on my stepfather who supposedly inappropriately touched one of my stepsister's children (which I believe in my heart my stepfather would NEVER do). They have continued to bring me and my family down to the point where I have harbored much anger and dismay over the mere mention of their names. What they did to my family was wrong, but I realize that blowing up on a Facebook status wasn't the best way to handle the situation. I truly believe in my heart that their sole existence in life is to hurt and destroy my family.
A little background--this was not at all the first time they have done something such as this, and probably won't be the last time. I consider myself a Christian, who has temporarily fallen from where she once was as a child of God. Perhaps finding a proper church would help me to let go of some of the anger I have harbored. I just don't know where to turn from here. Any advice would be wonderful. Thank you all and God bless.
.That's how it goes.Except when if you had to take part in a fight and you couldn't resist and its going in a dangerous level...escape the place,because devil will look for an opportunity to use one of you to damage other.Try keeping an attitude to flee fighting situations and silly quarrels.Pray a lot to God to change you.If you feel miserable and feel like crying,give all the tears to Jesus.He will change you and you will be amazed by the change.