Husband wants a divorce

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Jruiz

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My husband says he getting a divorce Friday ...I just don't understand how he doesn't love me..I have a 2 year ol and I can't support mysel right now..I don't know what to do..I never wanted this for my son..when I got pregnant I wasn't inlove with him..when I married him I wasn't inlove with him..eventually I fell inlove but I chose to stay because we were having a baby.. And know he wants to do this to me? It's just not fair.. It's devasting. I'm still prayin but I'm realy feeling discourage..
 
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My husband says he getting a divorce Friday ...I just don't understand how he doesn't love me..I have a 2 year ol and I can't support mysel right now..I don't know what to do..I never wanted this for my son..when I got pregnant I wasn't inlove with him..when I married him I wasn't inlove with him..eventually I fell inlove but I chose to stay because we were having a baby.. And know he wants to do this to me? It's just not fair.. It's devasting. I'm still prayin but I'm realy feeling discourage..
You are not responsible for the actions of your husband. Talk to a pastor/preacher and his wife at a Bible believing church and ask them to pray with you. I will, also.
 

Angela53510

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How can he get a divorce in one week? Surely you have a right to a lawyer and representation. And dividing of assets.

Please contact a legal aid society if you cannot afford a lawyer. Your husband may divorce you, but at least you can get what you are entitled to. Which is half of what he has.

Praying you can find some support and comfort as you go through this deep valley.
 

Jruiz

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I honestly don't want anything.. Just my son.
 
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brokenclay

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@Jruiz. I'm sorry this is happening to you Jruiz. Inspite of all the knowledge available to help couples before and during marriage it makes no difference. Change has to take place in the heart first. Both couples have to be on board with Jesus before they get married. I know you know this. But if you read all the tragic stories on here, you might see a common denominator. Something lacking in each relationship that leaves an open door for Satan to steal and kill.
Go to Happy Wives Club. She has great insights she shares with wives. I will pray for Gods peace and joy to flood your soul and give you renewed strenght. And for God to change your husbands heart towards God and you. Regards, Larry. :)
 
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CRC

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God hates a treacherous divorce.(Malachi 2:16) But humans are free moral agents. They can choose to ignore God's feelings and laws. However, God is able to support you in any trial or tribualtion.(Proverbs 3:5,6)
 
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mykingiegal31

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I understand how you feel, I been through a similar situation...all you can do is try to work it out. It looks like he already made up his mind wanting to leave. Sometimes, God make us go through these crazy things in life and we ask why? We may feel that God has forsaken us, but really God has been there for us from the start. I understand that you want the best for your son also, to have two parents lived together and raise him together. Sometimes life do not go according to what we have in plan. When I became a single mom, I struggle as well. I was working full time, going to school, and raising my 2 kids. Life was really hard for me. My relationship with God had kept me going. Keep praying and ask for the Lord's guidance and to whatever he leads you, let it be according to God's will.