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BeeD

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I don't assume someone is a Christian just because they are on "Christian" chat. But if you and your husband are then you should take him at his word that he is fine and there is nothing to worrry about in that area. I would be more concerned if he was complaining about the sex at a time such as this. You need to make sure you and your unborn baby are ok rather than worrying about his physical needs right now.
 
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lauram

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hi mama,

thx :). It'll be interesting for sure lol. Neither of us have baby experience! I think he is worried and says the whole thing def turns him off that way. I guess I AM worried about like almost 4 months going by.
 
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lauram

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beed my husband is NOT a christian. Maybe thats a part of my worry in a couple ways... I do believe he really means well though. btw, I have lots and lots of free time to worry about all sorts of things. I don't see whats wrong with worrying about my hubby and his needs while I'm already 'putting my feet up' all day every day for our son.
 
Nautilus

Nautilus

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To be fair and blunt, if this is a serious issue and causing you any type of stress that is also not healthy for your baby. Im sure there are ways you could satisfy your husband if need be that would not risk injury to the child. Not saying you should, but if you think it would help I cant really see a reason not too.
 
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Ugly

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I'd like to say that whether he is Christian or not is an entirely valid issue, but honestly, it's not. There are plenty of loving and faithful non-Christian husbands, and lots of dogs calling themselves Christians.
The real bottom line is has he ever given you reason to question his faithfulness before? If not, and if you have an otherwise good marriage, then there is likely nothing to worry about.
 
secularhermit

secularhermit

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As I see it, he soon will develope a feeling of rejection. He feels deprived for HIS OWN PLEASURE, not thinking too much on the baby, and that´s quite natural (As the Drs to see it so).

Second, you also would feel deprived and denied but, I guess you are more aware of the child than he is.

Obviosly there are ALTERNATIVES, but you are too used the way you´re used, that you two seemed unwilling to find the other way.

I just would think about the baby and, if something wrong happens, later or sooner, some sort of GUILT would invade.

Is that a relationship based on selfgratification?

Both know you two need to give your answers.
 
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