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Hi all. I just need some pressure release vulve or a bilge or something. Will be getting married next year. Neeed your advise. My fiance and i are are okay. both have stable jobs. she has career in medicine while i work as a business manager for this company. The problem is with the in laws. her mom is a very "different" person although she is a chrisitian, a pastor if you'll ask. it's just that she always wants to pick up a fight with her children. her children are all married grown ups.a day never ends with out some fight and yelling inside her house. she would just pester at everyone and cry when someone inside her house gets to stand up to her for her behavior. i really think my futur MIL should see a doctor. it's not right anymore.
1. she controls her childrens finances (they are all married and some with kids). she wants to be the one doing the budget for them. in turn, she wants part of their money to be given to her so she can give it to her church and go to missions. many times she would give money for the church originally intended for the home bills.
2. she would start a quarrel over some stupid things like the dishes, house getting dirty
3. she would pray over us and cast out demons out of us
4. she would tell her other daughters and her husband how she was wornged by this one daughter so that she could get votes from the family
5. we can never talk straight to her. she would quote the scriptures and sing hymns when we try to talk to her like adults.
6. she never wants to work. always ask for money.
seriuosly i think there is something wrong with her.
 
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greatkraw

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Hi all. I just need some pressure release vulve or a bilge or something. Will be getting married next year. Neeed your advise. My fiance and i are are okay. both have stable jobs. she has career in medicine while i work as a business manager for this company. The problem is with the in laws. her mom is a very "different" person although she is a chrisitian, a pastor if you'll ask. it's just that she always wants to pick up a fight with her children. her children are all married grown ups.a day never ends with out some fight and yelling inside her house. she would just pester at everyone and cry when someone inside her house gets to stand up to her for her behavior. i really think my futur MIL should see a doctor. it's not right anymore.
1. she controls her childrens finances (they are all married and some with kids). she wants to be the one doing the budget for them. in turn, she wants part of their money to be given to her so she can give it to her church and go to missions. many times she would give money for the church originally intended for the home bills.
2. she would start a quarrel over some stupid things like the dishes, house getting dirty
3. she would pray over us and cast out demons out of us
4. she would tell her other daughters and her husband how she was wornged by this one daughter so that she could get votes from the family
5. we can never talk straight to her. she would quote the scriptures and sing hymns when we try to talk to her like adults.
6. she never wants to work. always ask for money.
seriuosly i think there is something wrong with her.
I guess the culture makes things difficult but your fiance may have to CHOOSE whether she submits to you or her mother. You need to discuss this thoroughly with her and spell it out. Does she live with her mum?

She should move out now!

If she can't then you need to reconsider who you will really be marrying.