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RachelP03

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What do you do when you feel like you are at a Crossroads and have no direction to go too? I have prayed and prayed and feel like Im supposed to be standing here for a minute or something and Im getting very aggrivated with God and confused. I would love to have direction and peace with my path in life. I feel as if this was a time of growth to me and since Ive been working hard at it, I feel like now Im stuck. I really dont like this position.

Has anyone been this way or is going through something similar? What did you do? How long did it take?
 
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PureFaithANGEL

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I've been at the same position as you my friend... several times.
I would think that life is so confusing and that there was no way for me to figure out where to go or what options to choose from in life.
Please no matter how confused you feel don't be mad at God.. we actually don't have the right to be mad at Him when in fact He has such a beautiful plan laid out for each and every one of us with such care and for our own good.
When I felt like you did, I prayed to God, and He revealed to me the best way to feel great about my life and future:
Give myself COMPLETELY to God's will.
Once you let go of yourself and let God take total control, then you will know that no matter what happens in your life, it will be with God's knowledge.. He's the One Who will allow every single thing to happen in your life, and if you make choices that He didn't want you to make, He will make sure that you come back to the path that you are meant to be in.
This is my strength for moving forward without a doubt about my life.
I know that no matter what decisions I make, everything is in God's hands and that in the end only HIS will shall win.

Please go check out my christian blog article that I once wrote about a similar subject:
Let GO of YOURSELF | Pure Faith

God bless!!! Keep faith!! :)
 
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RachelP03

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I loved the blog.... Thank you for sharing it. I am struggling.... I can feel it and I'm not sure why it's so hard to fully let go. I just feel in my heart something but the impossible looks like the impossible. Would it be okay to speak with you privately?
 
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Bate

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At times it's really complicated!!!!!
But then, pressing on and attainment of faith can take faith and focus.
My prayer has always been, ''Let Your Will Be Done'', especially when things have at times seemed to completely be out of my control and decisions/plans. Things have appeared to take their right places!

Keep on running the race and fight a good fight of faith Rachel!
 
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tenderhearted

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I get where you're coming from. Usually when I'm in the position where I have done everything I can-- I know God is asking me to wait on him. Patience is hard, but I know that these are times of spiritual growth and character building. We all have to wait for things. I believe we will spend most of our life time waiting for something, but I feel God is concerned with the attitude of our hearts while we're waiting. Initially I didn't realize how God was working in me and my attitude was poor when I didn't receive an answer from God. What I found was when I responded negatively God would have me wait longer until I adjusted my attitude. The best part of it all was the fact that I grew closer to God in the process. My faith in him was strengthen. I learned that God is in control and that he never keeps any good thing from me. Also, there were times when what I thought I needed was completely wrong for me. I'm thankful that God is always looking out for me. As much as I may not like to wait, I'm thankful for His timing :) He's faithful. God is working in your situation even if it isn't apparent to you.