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Hello everyone, I am new. Just feeling really down. i go to court tomorrow to fight for my 16 year old son. I divorced in 2001 with a joint custody agreement for our 2 & 10 year old. In 2006, because i wanted to leave the state and my ex continued to harrass me and play games I was awarded sole custody of 8 year old son and my 15 year old son was turned against me by father and he went to live with dad. Now my youngest is 16 years old, in football, popular, GPA of 3.68 and great kid. He went to visit his dad and now wants to stay. Dad is the pal and I am the parent. He tells me the court will do what he wants since he is 16 years old. Even though I have sole custody I always send reports, etc. schedules to ex because I know that no matter how bad he is he is still Logan's dad. He remarried and ex and wife are so inmature and vicious people. Always cussing and drumming up drama. My son did come home for a few hours in his dad's car of course so he wouldnt stay and was cussing etc. I reminded him that he wont do that here in my home and the rest of the night was great. He says he loves me alot and he was the one that handed me the petition that his dad had done on june 14 but Logan handed me the opened envelope on june 27th. he was torn and crying. He has ADHD and his dad is not giving him his meds. He is different without them less focused which is scary since he is driving now. I am going to try to fight this. Why would a father want his son to change schools starting his junior year. His dad signed him up for football there even though I have full custody. Police would not help me get him back. My oldest son droppped out of high school and now smokes pot every 30 mins. and ex step son got a possession of drug paraphanilia charge and alcohol of minor charge while living with ex in high school. No supervision. I am torn up big time. All I can do is cry. My ex has never contacted me before or after he filed petition. I got attoenry and we got for temp custody tomorrow. I am hoping the new judge will see what the old judge wrote and realize my son needs to come home and be stable graduate and then I would drive him to his dads! None of this makes sense to me. I am so sad and scared