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If he has cheated on you, that is the ONLY exception God allows for divorce. So file divorce papers, ask for full custody of the kids, and ask to be awarded monthly child support from him. If he does not pay up every month, he will go to jail. He really does not have a choice here--YOU do!!
I was raised by a mom and my dad didn't pay child support either. But my mom gave me a continual faith that the Lord would provide what we need and to always look to him. We didn't have a lot of extras, but my basic needs were always met, and the lesson in trusting the Lord was worth far more than any $$ support we would have gotten. My mom never fought for her rights, just kept her eyes on the faithfulness of the Lord. For that I am grateful to her. I passed this lesson on to my kids who in turn have thanked me that the thing they value most that I gave them was to always keep their eyes on the Lord and His care for those who belong to Him.
Looking back....some of my favorite times with my children were when we were struggling.....hard times
brought us closer...our children are very helpful.......I would call my girls while I was at work....I had no money
and knew we had nothing for dinner....to my surprise when I got home from work they had found boxes and canned
things from the cabinet and made dinner for us.....I cried through the whole meal.....knowing my girls had my back....
And this is just one of they many ways my children had my back.....it made them strong and creative woman....
loving and caring.....even at some point they became my mother....making sure I ate...wore my seat belt...
together we learned to budget our money...these girls even donated birthday card money to the house hold
expenses.....so you see struggle makes us stronger and wiser...it humbles us to God...we learn better how
to lean on Him....how to trust Him....it builds faith.....day by day....thats all you have to do..
brought us closer...our children are very helpful.......I would call my girls while I was at work....I had no money
and knew we had nothing for dinner....to my surprise when I got home from work they had found boxes and canned
things from the cabinet and made dinner for us.....I cried through the whole meal.....knowing my girls had my back....
And this is just one of they many ways my children had my back.....it made them strong and creative woman....
loving and caring.....even at some point they became my mother....making sure I ate...wore my seat belt...
together we learned to budget our money...these girls even donated birthday card money to the house hold
expenses.....so you see struggle makes us stronger and wiser...it humbles us to God...we learn better how
to lean on Him....how to trust Him....it builds faith.....day by day....thats all you have to do..
If he has cheated on you, that is the ONLY exception God allows for divorce. So file divorce papers, ask for full custody of the kids, and ask to be awarded monthly child support from him. If he does not pay up every month, he will go to jail. He really does not have a choice here--YOU do!!
