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I have had trouble a lot lately and it grew a lot worse I used to be so close to God then lately this stuff I've done has driven me away but I still longed for God badly but I just couldn't stop my addiction it became like second nature to me 8( I am married with an Amazing wife who would do anything for me she always uplifts me and is close to God. I feel as if I was bringing her down with all these bad terrible things I've done behind her back. I feel so bad and guilty for it and it depressed me badly. For a long time I've had lust for woman and staring and watching them inappropriate ly . I watched porn and it got worse and worse to where it was consuming me and my free time. I got so bad as to start talking to other woman and going on craigslist and posting ads to sleep with woman and trying to do bad things I have to talked to woman I exchanged pics but I never went as far as to meet up with them and actually do things with them I always felt too guilty and I chickened out my wife always gets these weird feelings that I'm doing stuff but she never can prove it. Here recently I got caught and a girls home I was very attracted to her but I never did anything with her even though I really wanted to I chickened out and then my wife caught me. I know I deserve her lost trust and everything. She forgives me for that but I still have to earn her trust back. I am so scared of losing her and I love her so much. It hit me hard hurting her and realizing what I'm doing and having this wakup call to get right with God I had a huge conversation with him in my prayers and I'm dedicating myself to God and to vow to turn away from all the wicked things I've done. I really don't want to tell my wife all the things I've done and the feelings I've had about those things and I don't want a divorce I am changed. I would feel as my other half was missing if I lost her. Please some advice please