Does Anyone Else Not Care About Music?

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progressivenerdgirl

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Ever since I got into my teens I noticed the kids at church and around town were constantly plugged into their sound-boxes, or blaring something in their car, etc. They were obsessed with bands to the point of outright idolatry.

Now I'm not trying to make any kind of point here about the depravity and idolatry so prevalent in popular music, but just saying - it does nothing for me.

I have heard and forced to listen to all sorts of music, from Beethoven to gangster rap and I can't say I care for any of it. Again, I'm not talking about thematic or moral problems with music, but from a purely psychological/response analysis it does nothing for me. It's just bad poetry and noise. In fact, when someone tells me, "you gotta listen to MC XYZ, he's the greatest" I sort of internally roll my eyes the same way most people do when asked to read someone's poetry.

Not only do I not enjoy music but if I am trying to get anything done that requires organized thoughts or conversation the music has to go away. I can't concentrate with it on, the entire time I'm talking to someone I just want to smash the speakers so I can compose my thoughts.

I do listen to audiobooks, podcasts and sermons quite regularly, in fact if I can afford to split my attention I will listen to something of the sort all day. Now I recognize that this is somewhat similar to the girls I see at school with mp3 players cyberjacked into their skull, except we are obviously getting two completely different functions out of the sound - the whole 'rhythm' and weird emotional gravitas that seems to enmesh people in music does nothing for me; listening to podcasts or whatever is an intellectual excercise.

I remember at one point in church feeling kind of awkward and weird because the minister gave music as an example of something everyone likes and I knew that I would prefer we conducted our church services without the Genevan Psalter.

Now before I get the condescending sympathy plugs let me remind you that an absence is not a lack. Just because you don't grave nicotine does not mean you are 'missing out', even if everyone else on Earth is a smoker.
 
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NodMyHeadLikeYeah

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I love music.

I hate reading peoples poetry.
 
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progressivenerdgirl

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I love music.

I hate reading peoples poetry.
The only poetry I ever enjoyed was poetry people never told me to read...Ecclesiastes, a couple of the Psalms, Robert E. Howard, Shelley. When it comes to most of what people call 'poetry' all I see is writers who can't make sentence transitions. Bad art is worse than not trying, lol.
 
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kenisyes

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It is so hard for me to imagine someone who cannot like music at all. Thank you for sharing, seriously. I think it's great to realize the immense variety God has put into people.
 
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progressivenerdgirl

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It is so hard for me to imagine someone who cannot like music at all. Thank you for sharing, seriously. I think it's great to realize the immense variety God has put into people.
Haha, I think incredularity is the most common response. People think I'm joking or something!
 
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What is wrong with not liking music? Me I do love music but I can't stand watching TV. For me there is nothing really all that great about it. If music is not your thing that is OK and the way that God made you and there is nothing wrong with that.;)
 
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evenatthedoors

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Good music is a misnomer now. Very hard to find soul refreshing music around these days. What i have is audio bible by alexander scourby. Spend most of my day listening to it, though its audio rendition of the bible, its no less than any music. Try to download it if you can.
 
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lol, sound boxes... Music is sometimes considered as a way of reaching deep into spirituality, to others a mere form of entertainment, I lean towards the first depiction.
 

posthuman

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to me music is like a language to express things that words may be insufficient for. whether it's entertainment, a tool or a spiritual link i guess depends on what is trying to be said.

in that, i find it hard to concentrate on things like reading, math, writing, etc. while listening to music with lyrical content, but not as distracting as television. i guess i just naturally focus on conversation, so i have a hard time blocking out dialogue and lyrics. i have sometimes the complete opposite reaction to instrumental stuff; it can help me focus.
my wife is 180* different. she likes to read, write, study, whatever with the TV on. i can't understand it =p

as i've grown older i find i appreciate a lot of musics that i used to look down on, in some ways i think because i've learned to understand what it's expressing. it's become much less important how it sounds than what it says, though by that i mean the lyrical content and what's "said" through the language of sound.
 
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simplechick

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Music can be great 2 like the songs I'm glad u came thrift shop locked out of heaven .dancing in the dark
 
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Graybeard

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What on Earth are you going to do with all the harp playing in Heaven?
 
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My daughter doesn't like music. I don't think it's the actual music though. She knows the importance of music for setting a mood in movies, lifting the spirits, worshiping the Lord, etc. I think what she dislikes is that music (for her) interrupts communication between people. She hates listening to the radio in the car because she feels like we can't talk with the radio on.

I love music, but I can't have it playing when I am trying to concentrate on something. Like reading or writing. (Unless it's very low background music with no lyrics.) My mind wants to listen to the words and forgets that it's supposed to be doing something. I find it distracting. When I'm driving, exercising or doing mindless menial labor it's fabulous, though.
 

acesneverwin

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Maybe you just haven't found the right music? I never liked music till a few years after I got out of high school. Kids always thought I was weird but I just didn't care for it much, especially most of what they played. It wasn't till I accidentally stumbled upon a video someone made with flash and it had this song I really liked. Like REALLY liked. I checked out his other videos and there was another song I REALLY liked. I had never liked music as much as I liked these two songs. So I checked out the bands other stuff and some I REALLY liked... and a lot I didn't. But I was happy to have music I actually liked a lot. Then I found other bands with similar songs or two after buying the first two albums on amazon, it recommended others. Youtube was brand new at the time so I'd go there to check out songs if I could find em. Most of the time I couldn't find many of the songs cause at the time, not many songs were uploaded yet. But I still found a few that I really liked.

Today there are still really only a handful of bands where I actually LOVE all their music for the most part. But I've gotten more liberal when listening to music and listen to a lot and enjoy it... but like I said there's only a few bands with songs that REALLY stand out and I could just listen to those all day long.

But I can understand not liking music and feeling weird cause I used to be there...
 
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Colorado

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My grandpa actually doesn't like music at all. I love music and can listen to about anything. It is actually quite entertaining to see us changing the radio station back and forth while working on cars in his garage. He loves talk radio and I love well music and can't stand long amounts of talk. But I think it is that everyone is just different. My grandpa has never liked music in really any form. He really can't even think while music is playing, but me I usually have to have music in the background. We all were made with different tastes and are better and worse at different things.