How is any of what I said about lying to anyone? I said it's better to show compassion and have a bit of empathy, "invite the tax collector to your dinner table", so to speak, than to come out and harass somebody. I didn't say lie. I said there's no need, hell there isn't even any use, in threatening strangers. What makes you think that anybody, gay or straight, is going to listen to you when you walk up to them and threaten them or anybody like them (could be their partner, or even just their friends) with an eternity of torture unless they conform to your rules? If you came up to me or my kid where I live, in Belfast (or came up to pretty much anyone else who I know, for that matter) and said exactly what KaylaGirl posted, you would receive one of three things: total indifference, a verbal tongue lashing, or a slap so hard you'd have to sit down on the kerb and re-evaluate your existence. It's rude, it's unnecessary, and it's threatening, and there's absolutely no way that people are going to listen to you if you go about building a relationship with them like that, by saying "you're going to burn in hell if you don't believe what I say". Why would anybody want to believe a person who asks for trust (believe what I say) while simultaneously showing no empathy or understanding, no compassion, no ability to be pleasant, polite, or kind? They wouldn't, is the answer.