$2000 on 300 gifts for 3 children

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Billyd

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This woman spent $2000 on 300 Christmas gifts for her three children. That's an average or under $7 per gift. When I saw this, I wondered why. What do you think?

Mom Spends Almost 2000 on 300 Presents

Picture of mother is a little risque.
 

Magenta

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It does seem excessive. Perhaps the majority of the gifts could be donated.
 

maxwel

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I think what you buy your own children is nobody's business.

The problem seems to be that she bragged about it so much on her facebook page that she wound up on national tv.


I guess that DOES make it everybody's business.
 
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It wouldve been better if she had her children pick out gifts for children in need and gave them out for christmas. At lease it would have taught her children the value of giving to the less fortunate. Instead of over spoiling them. What you teach your children tends to stay with them as they become adults. It's not a good idea to over spoil them, then they will develop the mentality they can always get what they want.
 
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I was too young to remember this, but it is well known in my family.

When I was quite young, my single mother wasn't making much money, and we were living with her parents. She went way overboard on a Christmas for me. She, flat, couldn't afford it. My grandfather decided to teach her a lesson she never forgot.

He put some small pebbles in a cardboard oatmeal canister, taped the lid back on it, and attached a string to it so I could pull it, rolling, behind me. As it is told, I played with that 2 penny toy all Christmas day, mostly ignoring Mom's presents. They (and she) say that she cried for most of the day.
 

blue_ladybug

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This is just totally, absurdly ridiculous..
 

Billyd

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I was too young to remember this, but it is well known in my family.

When I was quite young, my single mother wasn't making much money, and we were living with her parents. She went way overboard on a Christmas for me. She, flat, couldn't afford it. My grandfather decided to teach her a lesson she never forgot.

He put some small pebbles in a cardboard oatmeal canister, taped the lid back on it, and attached a string to it so I could pull it, rolling, behind me. As it is told, I played with that 2 penny toy all Christmas day, mostly ignoring Mom's presents. They (and she) say that she cried for most of the day.
My dad had just returned from the war, and things were a little tight around our house. He took a cypress stick and nailed a syrup can lid to it for each of us. We pushed that thing around the yard for the rest of our Christmas vacation. My mom had to hide the syrup can lids to keep us from renewing our wheels.
 
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Colt45Bullet

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Maybe she just loves her kids and wants them to have a good Christmas. Jeez, don't judge the lady. I would rather read about her spend $2000 on 3 kids than nothing on 1. It isn't out choice of how she uses her money, let her spend it if she has it. You cant take it with you anyway
 

Billyd

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It wouldve been better if she had her children pick out gifts for children in need and gave them out for christmas. At lease it would have taught her children the value of giving to the less fortunate. Instead of over spoiling them. What you teach your children tends to stay with them as they become adults. It's not a good idea to over spoil them, then they will develop the mentality they can always get what they want.
When I saw th pile of gifts around the Christmas tree, all I could think about was how great of a lesson in the love for others that I could have taught the kids.
 

Huglife

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And that my friends, is how you create skilled spoiled brats:)
 

Angela53510

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We had no money when our kids were very young. They got one simple present. I made Christmas decorations from leftover scrap material. I got a beautiful stained glass angel at a craft fair where I traded silver jewellery for the decoration. Hubby got the tree from the power line cut at the airport where he worked. It was perfectly formed, but short. We emphasized the shape, not the height.

Fast forward a few years. I was working, the extended family was doing well. One year, there was not enough room to put all the presents under the tree! It really was appalling! We never let that happen again. We gave quality, necessary presents - you know underwear and socks!! Now at the grandchildren's house, and history is repeating itself. Well, at least there is some colouring with adults and children, doing 1000 word jigsaw puzzles, and sledding down the hill across the street on simple sleds!

As for the woman in the story, maybe some big ticket items, and some stocking stuffers? I wonder how much she gave to the poor? That was always something we did, once we were able to give. Our society has lost the true meaning of Christmas.
 
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Ugly

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Wait till those kids grow up spoiled and demanding. See how she feels about them then.
 

G00WZ

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not going to knock the woman for spending 2k on her kids, my grandmother used to spend around the same for my 3 cousins for christmas... some people are materialistic and others overspend to compensate for something, in my grandmothers case, she did it because she was a bad mother, so in her old age she is trying to make up for it with her grand kids... so yea.. tons of people blow decent stacks of money over the holidays, its nothing new, but 300 presents? lol i hope she didn't wrap them herself, and good luck with cleaning up all the paper .