I just have a lot of problems with christianity. I don't agree with the majority of stereotypical christian beliefs, nor do I like being associated with a majority of christian stereotypes. Im for gay marriage, Im for limited controlled abortion access, Im against pretty much any conservative movement, Im pro separation of church and state to the highest degree. Im pretty much the exact opposite of the term christian fundamentalist. The most important parts of the bible in my opinion dealt with the words of Jesus involving love another and care for the poor needy and sick and widows. However today far too many christians are too concerned about whether jon and mike down the street are wanting to get married than anything actually important to life. I mean most christians I know are the most intolerant and hateful people in my life meanwhile atheists I know are the ones helping the community and running homeless shelters or helping the poor. Seems a little screwed up that that is the current world we live in... Im pretty much on the gandhi side of things in that I love Christ, but cant stand a majority of his followers.
Here's why:
First off, you're generalizing. Yes, Christians have flaws. We mess up, A LOT. And yes, we should be better witnesses. But does that mean a vast majority, if not all, the Christians are just a bunch of hypocrites and religious extremists who are bigots who think they can do whatever they want but when someone who's not Christian does the same exact thing, they're gonna condemn them? THAT right there is the stereotype. That and that Christianity's just hype and emotion and giving our devotion to something that's fake.
Second, a lot of Christians are pro-life because we believe, a life is a life, and even if you don't want it, abortion IS murder. It's like...it doesn't make sense. Kill the baby while it's still in the mother, it's not murder. After the baby's born and someone kills it, it's murder.
Reason why a lot of them don't believe in gay marriage is, not only does the Bible say it's wrong, but physically and spiritually it's harmful. And it's really ruining society (then again, if there is no God, there's no need to worry, right? ). Now does that mean I have the right to go out and say to someone who's gay, "Repent or die!"? Umm, you better believe not! Jesus has called us to love EVERYONE. That DOES include the gays. If a Christian turns away from someone because that person is gay, they're in the wrong.
Third, the whole "tolerance" thing is pointless. Atheists want the Christians to "tolerate" them. Problem there is, the Atheists don't tolerate the Christians, and try and spread lies about them, saying that we're hateful. Christians dislike certain things and don't tolerate it and say so? Yes. Hateful? No.
Jesus doesn't just say love one another. He also says that if you hate someone, you've already murdered them in your heart. Now, go ask one of your Christian friends who's against gay marriage if they want to murder the gays...do you think they're gonna say yes? (If they do then...well...there's something EXTREMELY wrong there.) Hopefully not.
It's not just the Atheists that are running homeless shelters and stuff like that. If that was true, then my youth group wouldn't have helped out at the Salvation Army 2-3 weeks ago serving out food. We wouldn't go visiting people in the nursing home, talking to them. If that was true, then I wouldn't have gone with my youth group to a mission trip in Cincinnati, Ohio, where my youth group, and at least 1,500 other people joined to serve the city of Cincinnati for a week, giving out water bottles to those who needed some, giving out free popsicles on a hot day, paying for people's ice cream at a lake/kid's water park, PRAYING for people when they wanted it.
If you love Christ, then, if you still want to, follow Him. Don't worry about what the other Christians do. YOU need to focus on what YOU do. Worry about YOUR walk with Christ. Not others'.