i need to learn to be alone, just with god

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i would really appreciate some encouraging words rights now, from yourselves or from the bible. he lied, he lied a lot, he stole, he made me feel like I was going crazy, like i was loosing my mind. but now hes gone, but I still love him. I know we are taught not to hate, but, I want to hate him, just so I can move on with my life. how can I still be thinking of him and wanting him after all of this

please, your words may help ..
 

blue_ladybug

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Because you loved him. And thought that he loved you. I begged God to take Thomas out of my mind, and my heart. Part of that process included throwing out all the letters he sent me, along with anything he ever gave me, and burning his pictures..
 
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Because you loved him. And thought that he loved you. I begged God to take Thomas out of my mind, and my heart. Part of that process included throwing out all the letters he sent me, along with anything he ever gave me, and burning his pictures..
hes everwhere I turn, online hes there, at home hes there, and still, hes making me feel stupid. are you over Thomas?
 

Silverwings

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i would really appreciate some encouraging words rights now, from yourselves or from the bible. he lied, he lied a lot, he stole, he made me feel like I was going crazy, like i was loosing my mind. but now hes gone, but I still love him. I know we are taught not to hate, but, I want to hate him, just so I can move on with my life. how can I still be thinking of him and wanting him after all of this

please, your words may help ..
Think really hard about your own words...............and what life would have been with this man in your life, day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year................surely you would truly have lost your mind after a prolonged period with such a wimp of a man, thank the Lord that you have been freed of this parasite
 
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Think really hard about your own words...............and what life would have been with this man in your life, day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year................surely you would truly have lost your mind after a prolonged period with such a wimp of a man, thank the Lord that you have been freed of this parasite
your well and truly right, its just the feeling of abandonment again, I know God wont do that to me, but .. its such a horrible feeling. I hate it on my own , I know that's not a reason to stay. but I have done a lot for him, ever such a lot, and its all wasted and hes so ungrateful for it it hurts
 

Silverwings

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You might ought to study this link:

[video]http://www.greatbiblestudy.com/soulties.php[/video]
 
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loverofjesus27

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Me too soul ties can be good and bad its also hard to get out of that one if its bad. But trust in God the Lord and he will fill you running over till it over flows don’t worry God would not abandon you.
 

stonesoffire

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It's not about a mate, but along these lines..

Psalms 27:10 When my father and my mother forsake me, then the LORD will take me up.