Important Questions to Ask Your Date

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Crimson_Lark

Crimson_Lark

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Silly or sane I have learned to ask the following:

After you ask: Have you ever been married?
If the person says yes, ask: How many times? (One guy I went out with at 28 had already been married twice.)
If the person says no, ask: Have you ever lived with someone?

Always make sure you give conspiracy theorists a chance to break out their 'proud to be a believer' flag by asking if Communism has infiltrated and now secretly dominates the media and/or the government. Does he/she think school shootings are plotted by the government? How about 9/11? You would be amazed at the answers.

Do you have any good questions? I would love to hear them.



 
wisebeardman

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school shootings are plotted by the government so they can disarm us and impose communism on us......
 
Lynx

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seoulsearch

seoulsearch

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"If I walk into a post office, I won't see your picture there...

Will I???!!"
 
Lynx

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If you do, please be a pal and tear it down willya? Not that you ever would see my picture there, just saying...
 
seoulsearch

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"If the moon is full... nothing weird is going to happen... Like, your teeth won't suddenly elongate and you won't become covered in fur and start answering with a howl...

Will you?"
 
Lynx

Lynx

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No.

Maybe answer with a purr, depending on whether you are carrying tuna... or chocolate...
 
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VioletReigns

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I would think that being hit with a dating questionnaire would send up red flags. I'd think, "Yikes, this person has some serious trust issues!" :p

Light-weight questions would be fine (where'd you grow up? do you have siblings? what's your favorite music genre? are you a vegetarian? etc. etc.), but more weighty questions would be an intrusion if you hardly know each other.

Anyhow, I think modern dating is unstable in that most people don't establish friendship first. They go right for romance and forfeit the opportunity to really get to know each other and learn to like each other as friends. :)

Think about it: If you can't be genuine friends, how do you expect to survive as a married couple?
 
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Tintin

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Crimson_Lark said:
Silly or sane I have learned to ask the following:

After you ask: Have you ever been married?
If the person says yes, ask: How many times? (One guy I went out with at 28 had already been married twice.)
If the person says no, ask: Have you ever lived with someone?

Always make sure you give conspiracy theorists a chance to break out their 'proud to be a believer' flag by asking if Communism has infiltrated and now secretly dominates the media and/or the government. Does he/she think school shootings are plotted by the government? How about 9/11? You would be amazed at the answers.

Do you have any good questions? I would love to hear them.
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And if they had? Would you write them off if they were a Christian now and righteous in Christ's eyes? Where are you going with this?
 
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Shouryu

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1. If you were an android, and you currently did not know this, would you want to be told?
2. Can you drive stick shift, and can you change a tire?
3. Who is best pony?
4. If you could only do squats or deadlifts for the rest of your life, which would you choose?
5. Do you sing harmony or play piano?
 
maxwel

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I just ask, "So... were you BORN a woman?"
 
Theygaveutheirworst

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I'd ask, "Do you have multiple personalities?"
If I get more than one "no", I'd start to worry.
 
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Tintin

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maxwel said:
I just ask, "So... were you BORN a woman?"
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Oops.

But no, really, that's very important.
It's also important how you broach the subject.

And remember, say NO! to catfish.
 
cinder

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seoulsearch said:
"If I walk into a post office, I won't see your picture there...

Will I???!!"
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Maybe under employee of the month, otherwise probably not.

Tintin said:
Oops.

But no, really, that's very important.
It's also important how you broach the subject.

And remember, say NO! to catfish.
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But catfish are tasty and delicious. Just put them in the pan and fry them up. Be sure to add the secret seasoning.
 
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Susanna

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cinder said:
Maybe under employee of the month, otherwise probably not.



But catfish are tasty and delicious. Just put them in the pan and fry them up. Be sure to add the secret seasoning.
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Yes, they are, but I can't stop thinking...what did those swimming trash cans eat before they ended up in the pan?
 
JesusLives

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Shouryu said:
1. If you were an android, and you currently did not know this, would you want to be told? No that does not compute.....that does not compute.......

2. Can you drive stick shift, and can you change a tire? Barely and I have AAA why should I sweat?

3. Who is best pony? Mr. Ed

4. If you could only do squats or deadlifts for the rest of your life, which would you choose? Neither I hate to sweat I like to swim can't sweat there.

5. Do you sing harmony or play piano?Sing harmony and play a mean rendition of chop sticks on the piano.
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I liked your questions and answered in RED.....lol I don't always like the questions but yours were fun. I am getting married in a few days anyway so a lot of the questions have already been asked and answered....Evidently tourist and I like both the questions and the answers. Enjoyed taking your survey of questions though....lol
 
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