The beauty tip for all women that works 100%

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Blain

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Don't change a thing you are beautiful exactly as you are.
heh, I bet you thought I was going a different direction with this huh? Sorry I don't know any secret herb to keep your skin silky smooth or a product to help you lose a lot of weight to have that perfect curve but trust me you don't need it.
Whether your 90 pounds or 190 you are beautiful just as you are. even if the world cannot see it and neither can you you don't see yourself as you really are.

I see women put on loads of make up to make their skin smooth or that perfect color or that lipstick and eye liner and they go through all the trouble to look perfect. I can't help but shake my head because they clearly cannot see what I see, they have no idea how treasured and beautiful the really are by God and if a man cannot see that and cannot see how beautiful they are inside as God's precious child then in my honest opinion that man is not worthy of her. I am not saying don't look good as every women sometimes needs to hear she is pretty but don't go over board. Lots of girls were picked on and made fun of in school because they were seen as ugly or strange or different and I wish I was there because I don't see what others see. many girls have grown up being the outcast and never get dates never even have a guy hit on her no matter how she tried to change her appearance, if only that girl knew just how beautiful she really was.

I have always been able to connect to women easier than guys and by hanging out with them so much in school I learned how a lot of them think and believe, I found that at least 90% of all girls and women never think they are pretty enough or good enough. They see all these models in stuff like Victoria's secret adds or on t.v. these women who are so beautiful and have everything together and their lives are perfect and feel so much less than these women they see. But does anyone even know how much surgery a lot of these models had done to look perfect? How much of themselves they have changed and how much of themselves they have lost? Its mostly all fake and if a girl feels she needs to be fake to feel beautiful or attractive or valued then they obviously have no idea what God sees.
 
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MissCris

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I absolutely appreciate the sentiment of this thread, it's very sweet :)
And it's quite nice to hear, in a world where society constantly tells us exactly the opposite.


 

mailmandan

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Sure ladies, just go natural. Make up is overrated anyway. :D

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Ugly

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I remember we had a thread like this already. Many of the regulars women posted pics of themselves with and without makeup.

Mailman, if that's really all you have to say on the subject i feel sympathy for your wife.
 
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VioletReigns

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In Isaiah 53 it prophesies of the Lord Jesus:
He has no stately form or majesty that we should look upon Him,
Nor appearance that we should be attracted to Him.
He was despised and forsaken of men,
A man of
sorrows and acquainted with grief;
And like one from whom men hide their face
He was despised, and we did not esteem Him.

This is referring to our Savior and Lord... Jesus Christ of Nazareth... the Holy King of Kings... the Mighty Son of God! Despised, rejected, not handsome, not distinguished looking, no form to make people turn their heads to stare at him...

And yet you could not keep the multitudes upon multitudes of people from seeking Him out and thronging Him every single day and night! No matter where Jesus went, people sought Him out and found Him. Because Jesus Christ is wonderful and amazing and beautiful and lovely and majestic above all heaven and earth! He is Holy and Perfect.


And the most amazing thing is, the Lord Jesus looks at you and sees you that way. Perfect in His sight. You will never find anyone who sees you greater and lovelier and more holy and valuable as the Lord Jesus sees you. If you do enter a relationship based on carnal standards, it will be a journey of disappointment and heartache. Brother Blain speaks wisdom when he says your beauty is not the outward. That goes for men as well as women.

I Samuel 16: 7 -
"God sees not as man sees, for man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart.”

Blessings to you Blain for your awesome post! I praise God for giving you such wisdom in your young age. Thank you for sharing, dear brother. :)
 
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mailmandan

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I remember we had a thread like this already. Many of the regulars women posted pics of themselves with and without makeup.

Mailman, if that's really all you have to say on the subject i feel sympathy for your wife.
Oh, I was just joking around. My wife actually still looks pretty good without make up, as certain other women do too. I agree with Blain that if a girl or woman feels she needs to be fake to feel beautiful or attractive or valued then they obviously have no idea what God sees.
 

Blain

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Sure ladies, just go natural. Make up is overrated anyway. :D

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That's not the point of the message. Sure the one on the right is hot but likely most of that is make up and surgery and fake tanning spray while the one on the left is beautiful in her all natural state.

Most men have no idea how hard it is to be women, how hard they have to try just to look beautiful how society is constantly judging them and rating their hotness from a scale of 1-10 and how many of them fall short of others opinions of their looks. God however sees different and I admit the fleshly part of me is attracted to beautiful women and sadly my fleshly eyes see the outer appearance, But my heart sees something else entirely. my heart only sees a beautiful and rare treasure that God took such great care in making from every single hair to their entire being. I'll take the one on the left try
 

Pipp

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Women always make it out like its men that make us feel so bad about ourselves when in reality it's other women who make you feel like poop most of the time. Of course there are some exceptions .

Thank you to all of our wonderful CC guys for always trying to help us ladies see ourselves different.
 

blue_ladybug

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​I would just like to say everything on me is 100% natural..lol.. :) no nips, tucks, or injections for me!! I rarely ever wear makeup, only clear lip balm..peppermint flavor..lol.. :)
 

mailmandan

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Women always make it out like its men that make us feel so bad about ourselves when in reality it's other women who make you feel like poop most of the time. Of course there are some exceptions.
I agree with you on that. I hear women all the time (including my wife) talk about how terrible women can be to other women and like you said, try to make you feel like poop!
 
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VioletReigns

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Brothers and Sisters, it's written in Luke 16:15 where Jesus says to the Pharisees, "You are those who justify yourselves in the eyes of men, but God knows your hearts; for that which is highly esteemed among men is detestable in the sight of God."

We are not to be concerned with trying to impress others with our outward appearance. After all, what would your motive be? Why would you want the world to think you're "hot"? Especially if you're already married or in a relationship. Seriously. What would you gain by it? How does that glorify God?
 
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MissCris

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Brothers and Sisters, it's written in Luke 16:15 where Jesus says to the Pharisees, "You are those who justify yourselves in the eyes of men, but God knows your hearts; for that which is highly esteemed among men is detestable in the sight of God."

We are not to be concerned with trying to impress others with our outward appearance. After all, what would your motive be? Why would you want the world to think you're "hot"? Especially if you're already married or in a relationship. Seriously. What would you gain by it? How does that glorify God?
I feel like this was meant to shame those of us who ever bother trying to look nice...maybe you didn't mean it that way.

To answer your last question though, it doesn't glorify God for us to be concerned about our appearance. We shouldn't ever put our looks above the Lord. We shouldn't be so worried about how we look that we can't leave the house without makeup. Fashion, makeup, hair, etc. shouldn't be any kind of idol to us.

At the same time, I don't think it's wrong to put effort into how we look sometimes. And I don't think we can always help it if we feel "less than" sometimes because of what is constantly being shoved in our faces by magazines, TV, movies, even people we know. It can be really difficult to feel content with ourselves sometimes- even knowing that God sees past what we look like and that not everyone thinks a face full of makeup and done-up hair is the only way to be beautiful.
 
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Brothers and Sisters, it's written in Luke 16:15 where Jesus says to the Pharisees, "You are those who justify yourselves in the eyes of men, but God knows your hearts; for that which is highly esteemed among men is detestable in the sight of God."

We are not to be concerned with trying to impress others with our outward appearance. After all, what would your motive be? Why would you want the world to think you're "hot"? Especially if you're already married or in a relationship. Seriously. What would you gain by it? How does that glorify God?
Yeah, there is a balance between bringing up a point to make someone think and seeming to bash people over the head because they may struggle in an area. Maybe this is an area that is easy for you to cope with, but i'm sure there are areas of your life you struggle with and i'm sure you wouldn't appreciate a misuse of scripture thrown in your face with a handful of accusations and hyperspiritualism used in such as way as to make someone feel beat down rather than making them think.
 

Blain

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There is nothing wrong with trying to look pretty but just don't go overboard. Ask yourself why you want to look pretty.
 
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Sure ladies, just go natural. Make up is overrated anyway. :D

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...Sure the one on the right is hot but likely most of that is make up and surgery and fake tanning spray while the one on the left is beautiful in her all natural state.
Actually, the pic on the left was photoshopped to make her look ugly. Here is the original pic...

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VioletReigns

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Awww, nooooo I did not mean to bash anyone. I apologize. :( *sigh* I don't want to come across like that. Bashing is just yucky and gross!!!

What I was trying to convey is that we can ask ourselves what our motives are when we feel we're getting caught up in the flesh like that.

When I first joined here, I posted a photo of myself and then thought twice about it because it could have appeared haughty, I thought. I'm a tall lady and I lift free weights, and though I'm older in years, I wear outdoorsy type clothing, boots & jeans, my hair is wind-tossed as I don't look in the mirror to remember to brush it. It looks fine to me when I do glance at myself. But it sometimes draws unwanted attention and I feel unnerved by that.

I feel my outward appearance gets in the way of people seeing the Lord in me sometimes. Also, I get uneasy about compliments because I never know the nature of them. The world is so filled with vanity that it makes me want to fight valiantly against it.

Anyhow, I guess it's a sore point with me, this "beauty" ideal. I don't want to be valued for the way I look. I want people to see Christ in me for His sake... and mine.

Please forgive me, brothers & sisters for coming across like Joan of Arc bearing a sword. Jesus forgive me, too. :(
 
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MissCris

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Awww, nooooo I did not mean to bash anyone. I apologize. :( *sigh* I don't want to come across like that. Bashing is just yucky and gross!!!

What I was trying to convey is that we can ask ourselves what our motives are when we feel we're getting caught up in the flesh like that.

When I first joined here, I posted a photo of myself and then thought twice about it because it could have appeared haughty, I thought. I'm a tall lady and I lift free weights, and though I'm older in years, I wear outdoorsy type clothing, boots & jeans, my hair is wind-tossed as I don't look in the mirror to remember to brush it. It looks fine to me when I do glance at myself. But it sometimes draws unwanted attention and I feel unnerved by that.

I feel my outward appearance gets in the way of people seeing the Lord in me sometimes. Also, I get uneasy about compliments because I never know the nature of them. The world is so filled with vanity that it makes me want to fight valiantly against it.

Anyhow, I guess it's a sore point with me, this "beauty" ideal. I don't want to be valued for the way I look. I want people to see Christ in me for His sake... and mine.

Please forgive me, brothers & sisters for coming across like Joan of Arc bearing a sword. Jesus forgive me, too. :(
Forgiven and forgotten :)
I apologize too, for taking it all wrong. After reading some of your other posts, I realized it must've been my mistake, because you come across as very kind in your other posts. I do appreciate you taking the time to clear that up, though :)
 
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Wormwood

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Cute thread, Blain :cool: The sentiment definitely deserves some kudos! And props to all of the ladies enduring how much society circulates its one-dimensional idea of beauty. Keep on keeping on!