SINGLE IS NOT THAT BAD
As an associate pastor and evengelist I tend to get approached by ladies I feel are a temptation to me.
The sad thing is maybe some of these could be possible the one.
But, in Arizona unfortunately the dress code in the desert seems to remain the same from shopping to clubbing to church.
I feel if a woman cannot cover her assets any better than what little she tends to wear just enough to get by I would feel
very uncomfortable parading her around from church to church as my wife and SPIRITUAL leader.
By no means, do I believe these women do this on purpose for where I live it is the norm and has been for quite some time.
Interestingly though, I do live in an area that as a man you are constantly bombarded by all walks of life women
who seem to have the same questions on their mind. As they approach you they have the same attack methods.
Do you have a job, house, bank account, vehicle, and are you single?
It is incredible to think the standards by which these women seem to hold esteem.
But seriously, even as a man who would love to have a wife to share my ministry and vision with
and to share her interests too; I am a bit fearful of attempting to pick due to the fact I have my congregation to think about.
If it is my duty at all times to represent JESUS CHRIST to those I meet THEN I expect a woman to uphold the same standards
that I would ever consider to be my wife, partner, friend, and confidant.
So, you are not alone.
This complicates both sides of the fence.
Thank You GOD
YOU fill all the voids
we seem to feel we need to be involved in.
As an associate pastor and evengelist I tend to get approached by ladies I feel are a temptation to me.
The sad thing is maybe some of these could be possible the one.
But, in Arizona unfortunately the dress code in the desert seems to remain the same from shopping to clubbing to church.
I feel if a woman cannot cover her assets any better than what little she tends to wear just enough to get by I would feel
very uncomfortable parading her around from church to church as my wife and SPIRITUAL leader.
By no means, do I believe these women do this on purpose for where I live it is the norm and has been for quite some time.
Interestingly though, I do live in an area that as a man you are constantly bombarded by all walks of life women
who seem to have the same questions on their mind. As they approach you they have the same attack methods.
Do you have a job, house, bank account, vehicle, and are you single?
It is incredible to think the standards by which these women seem to hold esteem.
But seriously, even as a man who would love to have a wife to share my ministry and vision with
and to share her interests too; I am a bit fearful of attempting to pick due to the fact I have my congregation to think about.
If it is my duty at all times to represent JESUS CHRIST to those I meet THEN I expect a woman to uphold the same standards
that I would ever consider to be my wife, partner, friend, and confidant.
So, you are not alone.
This complicates both sides of the fence.
Thank You GOD
YOU fill all the voids
we seem to feel we need to be involved in.
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