Does anyone agree?

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asamanthinketh

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i'm not here on this earth to act like we are two. my mom and her husband might be older in age but they act like they are in kindergarden. they do and say hurtful things that would come out of a child's mouth.

if I am going to be married, i want to be loved, i don't want a weak man. I already have weaknesses. I already lack strength, that is why i have not had kids yet.

i want to be strong enough to be strong for them, to teach them things, to love them and to love their dad.

but it is really hard to do, when the people who live around you are jealous and unsupportive of something good like that happening

why would i waste my mental energy on fighting a battle that i do not need to fight. it is fruitless

the mistreatment i have received has already damaged God given character and my body, why would i want to do things to lead to an even earlier death.

this is why i say there is no real love in this world. and people are not ready for kindness, for respect, for health and well-being.

i want to be healthy and whole before i bring a child into this world. my child is not going to suffer the same things that i have
 
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asamanthinketh

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the people we associate with can bring us down or uplift us, and unfortunately i have been around alot of people that have used and drained my energy rather than understanding what i was trying to accomplish out of life. So because everyone always has an opinion or a judgement, and they are wrong.

God might have been trying to get me married. But did God know that I have been suffering my whole life and could never tell a single soul. And now that it is time to be married no new husband wants to support a woman in becoming strong. He wants her to be strong already.
And my family is not going along with the program. It is never going to work unless everyone works together. Can't they see what they have done.
 
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NewBelieverofChrist

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I have seen many of your posts and obviously you have been put in some very bad situations. God will lead you out of this, and if it's in His will you will find a husband that is everything you could ever need. I'm gonna pray for you. Can I get your name so i can make it more personal?
 
Moviefan2k4

Moviefan2k4

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Well, I can't speak for anyone else, but in my opinion a husband and wife should feel free to express both their strengths and weaknesses with each other. Running away from either one will only "tip the scales", and lead to disaster. As a man, I'd love to have a wife who is both secure in herself but also mindful of her foremost need for God, and her secondary need for me to support and protect her. God charged man with "loving his wife as Christ loves the church", but we can't do that very well if our wives run from their own fallibility.
 
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