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    counrtygurrl
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    Question Why am i having so much trouble finding a good Christian Guy??

    I love God with all my heart, but its sooooo hard too meet a nice christian guy..

    Im 5 "1
    Brown, && black, && blond hair
    im a dancer,
    going to college this year to major in Dance,
    i love to read,
    love hanging with friends,
    i have a job,
    live for the Lord,
    im smart,
    && funny,
    && i sing........

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    Default Re: Why am i having so much trouble finding a good Christian Guy??

    just wait...
    The Lord bless you and keep you!!

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    OK, no offense Country, but you're only 16. I'm 29, and I didn't even get my first kiss until I was 20. I think that if you let God lead you, and remain proactive in your search, then He will direct your steps.

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    Honestly patience may be what God wants from you right now. I agree with the last post I had my first kiss before 20 but I didnt get my first bf till i was 19. I would recommend not looking for guys, start to see them as just friends for a while which allows God control. My friend did this and ended up with an amazing guy.

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    Mmmmmm my lightbulb just went on, I came up with brilliant idea. If you are having trouble finding a good christian guy and Dothackzero is having a problem finding a good christian girl then why don't you both exchange email addresses and your problems will be solved.

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    good gooby!!!! ahahahha
    =D
    The Lord bless you and keep you!!

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    maybe ur looking in the wrong places?

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    there was a young girl called Rebekah who was soooooooooooooooooooooooooo wanting to get away from home
    her brother Laban was an entrepreneaur and was always trying to negotiate the best dowry for her without any consideration of her feelings
    every day she prayed God get me outta here
    one day a dude turned up with a bunch of camels
    he said his master's son Isaac needed a wife

    was she willing to leave all her family and friends and move to the other side of the world?
    she couldn't get packed quick enough

    it is all about LEAVING before you can be CLEAVING

    too many girls keep going back to mumma

    my friend's marriage broke up because his mother in law ran his wife and thus his home

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    maybe its the blond, black, and brown hair. maybe its confusing guys.

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    There are always good christian guys out there, but you need to wait on God to bring them into your life. The more that you look the more likely you will find someone that might not be the right one. Just be patient, and consentrate on the moments that God gives. Remember that God gives us things to do and relationships to build, but not always in the way that we expect.

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    Thanks fer all ya'lls help....

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    Patience is key! It's easy to feel like hope isn't there cause you can;t find what yo;re looking for. However, we gotta have faith those things'll come. The people in the Old Testament worked towards everything that was fulfilled in Christ that happened thousands of years later! Waiting to see fruition come in a couple of years dont seem so bad in comparison to thing some people never got to see the end result lol.

    in the end, use the time you have to become a stronger Christian. The more your character is built up and the more teachable you are, the better your future relationship will go. God bless ya!

    Also I like to see this and dothackzeros thread side by side. Makes me giggle.
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    kakashi has very concise logic.
    im thinkin i should take notes.
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    To quote the great Napoleon Dynamite, "Women want boyfriends with skills!"

    My Irish thumbs are so happy...cause of Jesus, baby!!

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    I am the same way girl. I am 20, almost 21 and I am having the hardest time trying to find a good christian guy who will treat me right. I have been in 6 relationships and gotten my heart broken each time. I know God has a plan in mind for me and one day I will be thankful for all that I have gone through but right now I wish it wasn't so dramatic.

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    Default Re: Why am i having so much trouble finding a good Christian Guy??

    give it time... God knows the desires of your heart, and if you have a desire to have a husband, put your faith and trust in God and His timing, and focus on your walk with Christ, because His Word says this:

    Philippians 1:6
    and I am sure of this, that He who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.

    Know that God dearly loves you, and will fulfill that desire in His time
    and when it is fulfilled, you will look back at the time that was spent waiting on God, and focusing on Him, and His glory, His love, and His beauty in your life, and you will realize: it was worth the wait... and you will thank God that you waited on His timing instead of relying on your time

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    Hi Jonno here

    PATIENCE PATIENCE PATIENCE! The trouble these days is that people want everything right away, you being 16 all you need to do is go out and have some fun man! I am 20 and i havent had a gf at all i am loving the single life, sure i think and worry now and then that i will have no-one and that i will die on my own (except the lord of course! ) but i trust the lord will find me a nice kind caring christian girl, TRUST TRUST TRUST! Please don't be afraid for the lord is good you just need to take time to think about what you want in life, then pass it over to god, who will then help you to find that speacial some-one don't worry though we are all here together to help each other so feel free to message me or i think i can speak on behalf on everyone here just message them whoever you feel more confortable with, i will pray for you that you find that speaical some-one

    Peace be with you

    jonno

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