seeking assistance in a realationship

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PRAIASEmyGOD

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ohkay i have this girlfriend weve bein together for 1 month and 6 days, yea i keep track of it, but usually the girl does and she doesnt, but thats not the main problem, ohkay so at school people say she is cheating on me not just a couple people but ALOT, and i am not one to listen to any roomer, then after a week of roomers she was at my eyes and we went to my room and i told her i had to talk to her about something, and i asked her "are you cheating on me, i will trust that you will not lie to me for the bible tells me to just take there word on things" and she took about half an hour to reply no in tears wich made me feel bad cause i was sitting there asking why she was crying and i told her if she is than don't worry we can just pbreak up and you can be with the one you like more, who am i to keep you from that? and other things like that and well thats not all of the problems, i am really muture for my age, and she's not..i listen with all my heart in church while she talks... I have grown very very very close to her family, infact i help her mom get closer to god and she thanks me for being with tiffany (my girlfriend).. and everytime i will try to hug her she won't hug me for a long time, and one of my best friends said that she was thinking about breaking up with me, and me personally i dont care is she does for if her love isnt in this realationship than where is it>??
 
zavok

zavok

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Dec 4, 2009
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at this point i guess its see what happens if she does or doesnt or if u start feeling like its not a relationship then talk to her and try to sort it ur still young shouldnt worry about serious relationships im 19 and not bothered about getting into anything serious
 
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glenwood74

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I'm 35 and I still haven't figured out the fairer sex. They are crazy, emotional creatures. Just be faithful to God and let her mature in her own time. I liked your 'God's feet' post. Stay strong in the Lord, dude!
 
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PRAIASEmyGOD

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zavok said:
at this point i guess its see what happens if she does or doesnt or if u start feeling like its not a relationship then talk to her and try to sort it ur still young shouldnt worry about serious relationships im 19 and not bothered about getting into anything serious
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like i said i am very muture for my age, i dont get mad, i don't cus, or do any of them drugs, i am me a follower of christ!
 
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PRAIASEmyGOD

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glenwood74 said:
I'm 35 and I still haven't figured out the fairer sex. They are crazy, emotional creatures. Just be faithful to God and let her mature in her own time. I liked your 'God's feet' post. Stay strong in the Lord, dude!
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Thanks! you should check out my other post
 
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sportygirl

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Honestly if your struggling with feelings you should take a step back and really look at the relationship is it worth it etc. Ask God anad be willing to listen to his answer whatever it might be, and be prepared for either answer. .i think thats the hardest part....you do seem strong in your faith so just really listen.
 
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chrisanzu

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Ugh..how i wish i had knowledge to help you on this one lol
But you know God is doing this for a reason, please stay strong,
He will bring up the next step you need to take and take you through it!
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yoej_ogart

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okay to be just blunt with you my friend, it's not really good for us followers to even be dating nonbelievers.. otherwise God really can't prosper your relationship.. since you wanted it to be with a certain person He will just let you enjoy your want. so I'd say wait and let your forever come to you.. it even says in the bible to be patient.. work on yourself and theeeen you'll be ready for her/him. cuz.. honestly.. would you rather go out with all these idiots but when that perfect somebody comes around you wont be right in the head about love? orrr would you rather focus on God and wait.. and wah laaaa here she or he comes lol i mean think about it! the only person for you that will never hurt you or do any bad thing to you, is the one God picked out for you(which is a true follower not a poser) which btw you gotta be careful about trusting those who say they "follow" Him..
 
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