I'm really tempted to play devil's advocate, but I really can't in all honesty.
I am one who sees multiple reasons why cohabitation just isn't a wise way to go whether someone is a Christian or not. If they are Christian, the number of reasons why cohabitation is not a good life choice only goes up. With that being said, though, I wouldn't automatically jump to the conclusion that cohabitation would have a negative effect on emotions. I know this more than likely doesn't happen in most cases, but what happens if a couple lives together and maybe even sleeps in the same bed, but never has sex? If they did ultimately break up, there would probably be some emotional baggage to wade through like there is with any break-up, but I'm not sure that either person would be left emotionally damaged from that.
I really don't think it makes a difference, though, whether or not the couple gets married in the end because they can't say for sure that that is going to happen when they make the choice to live together in the beginning. Whether or not they get married in the end, that initial choice still wasn't the right one, but I wouldn't appeal to the emotional impact first in suggesting why it's not a good idea.
I am one who sees multiple reasons why cohabitation just isn't a wise way to go whether someone is a Christian or not. If they are Christian, the number of reasons why cohabitation is not a good life choice only goes up. With that being said, though, I wouldn't automatically jump to the conclusion that cohabitation would have a negative effect on emotions. I know this more than likely doesn't happen in most cases, but what happens if a couple lives together and maybe even sleeps in the same bed, but never has sex? If they did ultimately break up, there would probably be some emotional baggage to wade through like there is with any break-up, but I'm not sure that either person would be left emotionally damaged from that.
I really don't think it makes a difference, though, whether or not the couple gets married in the end because they can't say for sure that that is going to happen when they make the choice to live together in the beginning. Whether or not they get married in the end, that initial choice still wasn't the right one, but I wouldn't appeal to the emotional impact first in suggesting why it's not a good idea.