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sportygirl

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With Jesus Christ! Over the past two weeks between some books i've read my quite time i've learned Jesus has to be number 1 in my life. I'm tired of searching for "the one" and wondering if the one im dating is. Now that im single i realize these thoghts were too much pressure on my bf at the time. I know deep down that God has a pkan for "the one", so for now i just want to enjoy God im my life and hand it all over to him for he knows best. In doing this I want to view all guys as mmy brothers in christ, I am gonna keep my eyes open for God's work. I will admit this is hard I dont remember the last time I wasnt romntically interested in a guy, and its especially hard because part of me still wants to marry my ex.
 
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greatkraw

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sportygirl said:
With Jesus Christ! Over the past two weeks between some books i've read my quite time i've learned Jesus has to be number 1 in my life. I'm tired of searching for "the one" and wondering if the one im dating is. Now that im single i realize these thoghts were too much pressure on my bf at the time. I know deep down that God has a pkan for "the one", so for now i just want to enjoy God im my life and hand it all over to him for he knows best. In doing this I want to view all guys as mmy brothers in christ, I am gonna keep my eyes open for God's work. I will admit this is hard I dont remember the last time I wasnt romntically interested in a guy, and its especially hard because part of me still wants to marry my ex.
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you are gaining wisdom at your age that I didnt figure out until many decades later
 
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iliveforHim

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greatkraw said:
you are gaining wisdom at your age that I didnt figure out until many decades later
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ditto!!! So nice to see your heart is whole with Jesus!!! :)
 
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sportygirl

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Thank you, its definetly not easy, its one of those things that i know i NEED to do. BUt sometimes I want to take control again even though I know he knows better than I do. It's definetly not an easy lesson, I guess I'm glad i am learnign this sooner rather than later though.
 
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NewBelieverofChrist

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That is the best way to go about it. Jesus always needs to be first in our lives and until we fully understand and live that I don't we are ready to be with someone. You need to rely on him for everything because your potential partner will let you down from time to time. I was on and off with a girl I was totally crazy about for about 5 years and it recently ended. I honestly thought we were meant for each other, gonna get married blah blah blah lol but it just didnt work out. Its been about 3 months but it still hurts to think about it at times. But for now, and eternity, Christ is my number 1. If I'm single like Paul forever I will content, even though it will be hard. Christ is my rock
 
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worldlover

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Keep the fire burning sportygirl!^_^
 
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mayra

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NewBelieverofChrist said:
That is the best way to go about it. Jesus always needs to be first in our lives and until we fully understand and live that I don't we are ready to be with someone. You need to rely on him for everything because your potential partner will let you down from time to time. I was on and off with a girl I was totally crazy about for about 5 years and it recently ended. I honestly thought we were meant for each other, gonna get married blah blah blah lol but it just didnt work out. Its been about 3 months but it still hurts to think about it at times. But for now, and eternity, Christ is my number 1. If I'm single like Paul forever I will content, even though it will be hard. Christ is my rock
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hi .. May God bless you :) and use your life as blessing for many
 
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