Hello Goodgirl,
As a Christian I know you know this verse but as a foundation let me start there...."Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not unto your own understanding, in all your ways acknowledge Him and He will direct your paths." Prov 3:5-6.
God says, "Ask whatever you wish, and it will be given you."....Oh wait, that's not exactly all He said. He starts that with..."If you remain in me and my words remain in you.."etc...etc.. So we know based on God's promises He will answer your prayer for a Husband. He answers yes, ..sometimes, no....sometimes maybe...
So, we can conclude that is not the problem..right?!! So, what is the hold up?
Well, perhaps it is His timing, or the Maybe answer. But I Feel the need to ask the question, after seeing the long list of accomplishments listed as the premise to your requests. And, I understand you are trying to explain your situation to us as to the background, but it is also a choice that you made that the background and not the time spent in prayer over it, becomes that description to us...so not concluding anything......but.....
...Because of that, I am reminded of the stories in the bible of the interaction of Jesus with the Pharisees.
Luke 14:3. Describes a time Jesus was in the temple after being with the disciples, and the Pharisees came in and began to mock Jesus in the way He went about Himself, basing their displeasure on their Laws of reverence to ....well to Himself [As they came to find out] and God .
Jesus asks them.."Is it Lawful to heal on the Sabbath?'...Now they had already been thru a spell on this subject earlier, so He is seeing if they listened.
I believe God was asking them in asking that question ..."Do you see who stands before you? I am the author of the things you serve the Law for!".."Do you get yet , that it is me you need to commit to, not the formula to me based on your reasoning, and intellect?"
As I see you in sorrow, I saw them in sorrow when hard times or needs came they didn't feel answers met their approval. They felt this anger toward God because they felt they earned His favor for the things they performed in the Law. Yet, God owes them nothing. It is Jesus Himself that is the answer. So, they became estranged to Jesus as they wallowed in their pity.
My answer to your questions that you have not seen the light at the end of the tunnel yet, actually, Jesus' question to them..."Who do you say that I am?"..."Do you trust me?"... In addition, I would remind you of the walk in that faith.. "be anxious about nothing, but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, that transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Phil. 4:6-7.
I want to say, at age 26 you have nothing but Hope yet! You see I am 455 years old so that's wisdom speaking.... But as a person listening to you ....and not concluding things based on my own subjectivity... I want to, simply, pray for your needs to be met now, for that is your heart on it. And thus, now mine, for it is fair to ask.
Father, Give your Goodgirl your blessings in the area of a man. Bring Joy to her heart knowing you are on the quest to make that happen. Father be preparing the man as we speak, to live his life in you so as to give her the man she needs, make their paths cross, Help Goodgirl to become that woman he will need to uplift one another in the walk of faithfulness in you. by sitting in you.......I ask this in your name..Amen!