CHOOSING NOT TO SAVE A LIFE

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asamanthinketh

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WHY IS IT THAT ALL MEN WHEN A GIRL CALLS THEM THINKS ONLY OF SEX, CAN'T THEY SEE THAT GIRLS GET LONELY, THAT GIRLS HAVE SOCIAL NEEDS, NEEDS FOR COMPANIONSHIP, HEALING NEEDS FROM PAST RELATIONSHIPS

WE ARE GIFTED AND HERE SURVIVING TOGETHER WHY DO WE NEGLECT ONE ANOTHER? WHY DO WE HARM ONE ANOTHER? WHY DO WE CHOOSE TEMPORAL THINGS LIKE ALCOHOL OVER SAVING SOMEONE'S LIFE?
 
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Lonsome_cowboy

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Guess You just haven't met the right person...
 
Pheonix

Pheonix

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Its because of sin. People and especially men are extremely selfish. Though in our defence, we men don't have the emotional radar women have. Often we aren't as strong as women, so when things go wrong, we hide our fear and weakness in drugs, alcohol or even more stupidly porn or an affair. Sometimes we don't know how to cope when the person we love is in distress, so instead of helping we retreat and hid.

Read a book called "For women only" by Shaunti Feldhahn. It will give hou an insight into the male mind.
 
zeroturbulence

zeroturbulence

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asamanthinketh,

Whoever this guy is, he is very attracted to you. You can take it as a compliment. When a man is very attracted to a woman, it is often difficult for him to think of other things and I do mean difficult. Imagine if a guy you were very attracted to were to call you. Wouldnt your first thought be that he will ask you on a date? That is the same way that men's first thought is often about their physical attraction to the woman. I know that a date is not the same as sex, but for many men and women these days there is no such thing as a platonic relationship unless they are already friends.
 
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