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So last night, I was recounting my friendships over the years and remembering the most meaningful ones I have had and do have. Three of the most meaningful friendships I had were with girls. Once any tension of one of us or the other wanting to "date" was gone, and we were simply content being friends, it led to a great friendship. In every case one of us always went through something really difficult, and the other was always there just to listen, and give encouragement. I value those friendships so much, there was such a closeness, and intimacy there, while still being completely respectful and decent. No pressuring to go on a date, no pressuring to be something more. We knew we would be friends and absolutely nothing more, and we were happy with that.
At this point in my life, I really don't know if I'll find anyone or not, and to be honest, I would really be happy to stay on my own I think. But here's the thing, even with someone being single and possibly staying single, I think we need people of the opposite sex. Not because we need to do the wild dirty. Not because I think we're required to get married. But God made two genders for a reason. We complete each other. Even if there is nothing more than friendship going on, it's beneficial for that contact and that kind of friendship to take place I think. I had some great male friends, and I still do, but I could not connect with them on the same level I connected with my female friends. I can't explain it, it is what it is.
(P.S. No, I don't think this is a license for married couples to hang out with the opposite sex. It's meant for singles)
Anyone else have/had a friend like this? How did you feel about it?
At this point in my life, I really don't know if I'll find anyone or not, and to be honest, I would really be happy to stay on my own I think. But here's the thing, even with someone being single and possibly staying single, I think we need people of the opposite sex. Not because we need to do the wild dirty. Not because I think we're required to get married. But God made two genders for a reason. We complete each other. Even if there is nothing more than friendship going on, it's beneficial for that contact and that kind of friendship to take place I think. I had some great male friends, and I still do, but I could not connect with them on the same level I connected with my female friends. I can't explain it, it is what it is.
(P.S. No, I don't think this is a license for married couples to hang out with the opposite sex. It's meant for singles)
Anyone else have/had a friend like this? How did you feel about it?