Ok so we all know I’m overly analytical at times (like always) and I’m wondering if I’m unusually weird here or if this is perfectly reasonable and more normal than not. So, when someone you don't know shows interest in getting to know you better or spending one on one time with you, do you want to know the reasons for their interest? Recent events brought to the forefront that I very much want a reason why a guy would single me out from all the other ladies in the world, and if that guy cannot say anything specific regarding why he wants to know me, I distrust his interest and feel like I’m just a warm body that happens to be female and seem available and that he just wants a girl or a relationship but not necessarily me.
So ladies (or gents) do any of you go through a similar thought process? And gents (or ladies) if the person you are interested in asked you why you were interested, how would you respond?
So ladies (or gents) do any of you go through a similar thought process? And gents (or ladies) if the person you are interested in asked you why you were interested, how would you respond?