Okay I'm sorry but this is a major issues that NEEDS to be brought up.It happens all to often as it is, but even on this site. So many women(for the majority anyways, very rarely is it men) wear their heart on their sleeve. They do what they call ''harmless flirting'' however, the thing is it's NOT harmless. Someone always ends up hurt one way or the other. It doesn't matter if it's the woman flirting with the man, or the man flirting with the woman. Someone's heart ALWAYS gets hurt and played. Women throw them self out there like a piece of meat and basically say ''here I am who wants me?".
As I said, men generally don't do that. Now there's ''creepers'' out there both men and women, however the point stands clear. This site is NOT for hooking up, there is a singles room however. Should two people meet on this site, end up dating, or married, or whatever then so be it great for them. However don't throw yourself out there like that it's VERY dangerous!
Rather than go to men, or women which ever the case may be, go to God! Allow Him to fill that void in your life and heart, being single does get old yes...however, it's not the end of the world, I assure you that just because you're a certain age, and single, does not mean the world will stop spinning or end. The worst part is it's generally the really young ladies that throw them self out there in such a way.
Most whom do this, have serious self esteem issues or something, not all, but a large amount of them. Let me tell you this, you are fearfully and wonderfully made. You are beautiful, smart, intelligent, everything that a man wants in you. You're a child and creation of God! For the men, you're handsome, smart, funny, everything that a woman wants.
Just be careful out there, you have no idea whom you are really talking with via the internet. They can tell you anything, and it not be true, you have no idea. I'm sure there's honest people out there, but just guard your heart, and take precaution. STOP throwing yourself out there like a piece of meat! When it's in God's timing and according to His plan and will, you will meet the right one for you.
I understand you can't sit around your whole life and expect them to come up and knock on your door, but you can't just throw your self out there like that. Look for a simple friendship, companionship in a friendly way, someone to stick by your side through thick and thin as a friend, etc. If only a friendship builds up or lasts, then great, if you end up married or something, great. Anyhow, I'll stop now, but yeah this is a major issue not only in the world, but also in the internet world so to speak.
Honestly it saddens and sickens me to see so many out there just wanting to take whomever will take them. Someone comes along, and says ''hey you're cute'' or anything else, a simple compliment, and poof they take it as being hit on and want/expect something to form right away. It's just so sickening and degrading to see someone hurt that bad, that they honestly believe with all that's within them, they honestly believe they ''need'' someone. *sigh* okay anyways, I'm done for now
So God bless all! And keep in mind, I meant this totally out of love!
As I said, men generally don't do that. Now there's ''creepers'' out there both men and women, however the point stands clear. This site is NOT for hooking up, there is a singles room however. Should two people meet on this site, end up dating, or married, or whatever then so be it great for them. However don't throw yourself out there like that it's VERY dangerous!
Rather than go to men, or women which ever the case may be, go to God! Allow Him to fill that void in your life and heart, being single does get old yes...however, it's not the end of the world, I assure you that just because you're a certain age, and single, does not mean the world will stop spinning or end. The worst part is it's generally the really young ladies that throw them self out there in such a way.
Most whom do this, have serious self esteem issues or something, not all, but a large amount of them. Let me tell you this, you are fearfully and wonderfully made. You are beautiful, smart, intelligent, everything that a man wants in you. You're a child and creation of God! For the men, you're handsome, smart, funny, everything that a woman wants.
Just be careful out there, you have no idea whom you are really talking with via the internet. They can tell you anything, and it not be true, you have no idea. I'm sure there's honest people out there, but just guard your heart, and take precaution. STOP throwing yourself out there like a piece of meat! When it's in God's timing and according to His plan and will, you will meet the right one for you.
I understand you can't sit around your whole life and expect them to come up and knock on your door, but you can't just throw your self out there like that. Look for a simple friendship, companionship in a friendly way, someone to stick by your side through thick and thin as a friend, etc. If only a friendship builds up or lasts, then great, if you end up married or something, great. Anyhow, I'll stop now, but yeah this is a major issue not only in the world, but also in the internet world so to speak.
Honestly it saddens and sickens me to see so many out there just wanting to take whomever will take them. Someone comes along, and says ''hey you're cute'' or anything else, a simple compliment, and poof they take it as being hit on and want/expect something to form right away. It's just so sickening and degrading to see someone hurt that bad, that they honestly believe with all that's within them, they honestly believe they ''need'' someone. *sigh* okay anyways, I'm done for now
So God bless all! And keep in mind, I meant this totally out of love!
