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I have seen plenty of ladies with underdeveloped breasts and I think you'll find there's quite a few men who don't have a problem with this. Especially if she is a feminine lady, and not a "butch" acting, world-hardened person. I know it's not a big seal with me, and I know others who feel this way too.
M
Thank you I wish I believed that with my heart. I've never been married, don't have children of my own. I am a foster parent and two of my girls have aged out and are my girls now. But it bothers me that men my age or older have there eyes fixated on my babies r as old as they are they want beautiful young women.
L
See there! Quite a few wise men on this thread eh?! Cheer up! The enemy is just trying to mess with your mind! God is greater! You are wonderfully made by Almighty God . There is noone quite like you. You are special my sister. Gods will be done! May the Lord bless you abundantly.Amen
[h=1] Psalm 139:14
[/h] [SUP]14 [/SUP]I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.
[h=1] Psalm 139:14
[/h] [SUP]14 [/SUP]I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well.
G
What is this? Underdeveloped? Underdeveloped breasts?
What's the name of that Hollywood woman who chose mastectomy. She didn't have cancer, but was apparently high risk. Her husband...can't remember his name, but women love him. What does he do? He stays with his wife. Brad Pitt. That's the guy.
I don't know what underdeveloped is. Even so, wishing or feeling uncomfortable in our skin is a bit normal.
You are 50 and insecure. Understandable. Yes, a great number of men are drawn to looks and certain measurements. But some get past that, and many others don't care.
Question: How would you know if the guy is a few inches short? When would you ask? On the third date? Maybe one year into the relationship? Do you hand him a questionnaire on the first date: What is your size? Or, do ask when he proposes? If so, conversation like this
Man: "Will you marry me?"
You: "Are you endowed?"
Man: "Yes."
You: With some disappointment "How much so?"
Man: Gives his size.
You: "That's too big for me. I can't marry you."
So what if he does understand you, what then? I understand you want bigger breasts. Do you understand how I feel? I want a bigger thing. Such feelings and expressions actually weaken self confidence. First the issue is about you. You will want him to give you confidence. But he's not confident. So then the issue about him. Then back and forth.
If you believe God created you that way, then be glad. I mean look what Hollywood creates? Busty women who act like fools. Idiots. Shallow.
You see. Any man can get a woman with large boobs. A one night stand. Some may even find long term, marriage.
Eventually intimacy with the woman will be more important than the body. Mature men know that.
The last thing a mature man wants is boob headed woman. Even if she does have two outstanding boobs.
It ain't your boobs that are underdeveloped, it's your heart and mind. Listen to the truth. God loves you. And if you give men a chance, you'll find many men who are interested in you, your thoughts, your ideas, your beliefs, you goals, your aspirations.
I'm still curious how you would know if the man is long or short.
What's the name of that Hollywood woman who chose mastectomy. She didn't have cancer, but was apparently high risk. Her husband...can't remember his name, but women love him. What does he do? He stays with his wife. Brad Pitt. That's the guy.
I don't know what underdeveloped is. Even so, wishing or feeling uncomfortable in our skin is a bit normal.
You are 50 and insecure. Understandable. Yes, a great number of men are drawn to looks and certain measurements. But some get past that, and many others don't care.
Question: How would you know if the guy is a few inches short? When would you ask? On the third date? Maybe one year into the relationship? Do you hand him a questionnaire on the first date: What is your size? Or, do ask when he proposes? If so, conversation like this
Man: "Will you marry me?"
You: "Are you endowed?"
Man: "Yes."
You: With some disappointment "How much so?"
Man: Gives his size.
You: "That's too big for me. I can't marry you."
So what if he does understand you, what then? I understand you want bigger breasts. Do you understand how I feel? I want a bigger thing. Such feelings and expressions actually weaken self confidence. First the issue is about you. You will want him to give you confidence. But he's not confident. So then the issue about him. Then back and forth.
If you believe God created you that way, then be glad. I mean look what Hollywood creates? Busty women who act like fools. Idiots. Shallow.
You see. Any man can get a woman with large boobs. A one night stand. Some may even find long term, marriage.
Eventually intimacy with the woman will be more important than the body. Mature men know that.
The last thing a mature man wants is boob headed woman. Even if she does have two outstanding boobs.
It ain't your boobs that are underdeveloped, it's your heart and mind. Listen to the truth. God loves you. And if you give men a chance, you'll find many men who are interested in you, your thoughts, your ideas, your beliefs, you goals, your aspirations.
I'm still curious how you would know if the man is long or short.
M
OK ok maybe I sounded like a fool, it's just the way I felt and I don't want bigger boobs. I'm not going to ever get married anyway and I know that I should have never let that silly thought out of my head. It was a personal thought should have kept it personal. But you guys are great. Thank you for the counsel
When I was 25, I was pretty shy and never dreamed of complimenting a complete stranger. Today at 50, I compliment all the time, including women half my age, but do so very respectfully and for no other reason than to just make someone smile.
Here's a example:
"I'm old enough to be your dad so please know that I'm not hitting on you, but I have to tell you, you're smile lights up the entire room. Make sure you always share your smile with someone in need."
This always proves to be a great experience because everything I say is true: I'm old, I'm not hitting on them, their smile is awesome, and its important that they always share a smile with others.
And for the record, even an average, ho hum, smile can instantly become a person's best feature when you've brought them a moment of happiness.
Here's a example:
"I'm old enough to be your dad so please know that I'm not hitting on you, but I have to tell you, you're smile lights up the entire room. Make sure you always share your smile with someone in need."
This always proves to be a great experience because everything I say is true: I'm old, I'm not hitting on them, their smile is awesome, and its important that they always share a smile with others.
And for the record, even an average, ho hum, smile can instantly become a person's best feature when you've brought them a moment of happiness.
