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My worst date was my first as well. The guy kissed me (I wasn't expecting it either.) it was my first kiss... I looked at him and said "is that it?" With a not too happy look on my face. That was so rude of me - poor guy. Lol! I usually can't help but say the first thing in my mind and my face is very expressive of my feelings.
That's so embarrassing hehe!
That's so embarrassing hehe!
Let's see... *thinks back a hundred years or so*
My worst first date was a guy in high school who asked me out for a specific night, and then showed up without warning to pick me up several days before our date was supposed to be. I was in old painting clothes, and was in the middle of a painting project. No make-up, hair a mess, extremely unprepared. I told him I couldn't go anywhere with him just then. So we ended up going a few days later (maybe on the originally planned evening, can't remember) except that he brought another girl along too, as a friend. It was very weird.
My worst first date was a guy in high school who asked me out for a specific night, and then showed up without warning to pick me up several days before our date was supposed to be. I was in old painting clothes, and was in the middle of a painting project. No make-up, hair a mess, extremely unprepared. I told him I couldn't go anywhere with him just then. So we ended up going a few days later (maybe on the originally planned evening, can't remember) except that he brought another girl along too, as a friend. It was very weird.
OH MY GOSH. I have had plenty. I've had at least 3 worst ones that I can think of. But I'll settle with the first one.
So, I had a friend named Chris. Chris had set me up with his other friend, Tom. So, I was like, sure, why not? What's the worst that can come out of it?
I never met Tom, but we texted for a few days before we met up. He was the gentleman and decided to pick me up at my parent's house (I was 19 at the time so still living with them). I came out and we talked for a little bit in the drive way and then we drove off to his house for a game night with friends (Chris will also be there). It wasn't until 10 minutes into the date, he started talking about how he had mind powers. Legit. Like, he wasn't joking. He would try to do something with his mind (literally in the car) and it didn't work and he'd get mad. So he'll try it again to try to move something on the road or whatever, and it wouldn't work. So he'd get mad again. This lasted for the whole car ride and it was probably a 30-minute drive.
We got to his house and I'm already weirded out by this dude. His friends were already there and so we hung out with them. He sat next to me and put his arm around me, and I got up so quickly and just sat between two other people. Haha. I didn' tknow what to do. I was 19!
There were a few other awkward moments with him, but I'll save you the boredom.
It wasn't untli he drove me back home when he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said, "No." He then proceeds to pull to the side of the highway.....yes, the highway....and parked his car and for 30 minutes, he continued asking me to be his girlfriend and why I wouldn't want to be his girlfriend.
I looked at him and said, "If you don't bring me home, I'm gonna need to get someone else to pick up....like my Dad. And I'm telling you, you don't want my Dad to pick me up. Trust me. Because he's going to be furious that you're basically keeping me in this car for 30 minutes asking me this over and over."
Tom got such a scared look on his face, and he finally drove me home. He then proceeds to TRY to give me a goodnight kiss which I blocked.
So, I had a friend named Chris. Chris had set me up with his other friend, Tom. So, I was like, sure, why not? What's the worst that can come out of it?
I never met Tom, but we texted for a few days before we met up. He was the gentleman and decided to pick me up at my parent's house (I was 19 at the time so still living with them). I came out and we talked for a little bit in the drive way and then we drove off to his house for a game night with friends (Chris will also be there). It wasn't until 10 minutes into the date, he started talking about how he had mind powers. Legit. Like, he wasn't joking. He would try to do something with his mind (literally in the car) and it didn't work and he'd get mad. So he'll try it again to try to move something on the road or whatever, and it wouldn't work. So he'd get mad again. This lasted for the whole car ride and it was probably a 30-minute drive.
We got to his house and I'm already weirded out by this dude. His friends were already there and so we hung out with them. He sat next to me and put his arm around me, and I got up so quickly and just sat between two other people. Haha. I didn' tknow what to do. I was 19!
There were a few other awkward moments with him, but I'll save you the boredom.
It wasn't untli he drove me back home when he asked me to be his girlfriend. I said, "No." He then proceeds to pull to the side of the highway.....yes, the highway....and parked his car and for 30 minutes, he continued asking me to be his girlfriend and why I wouldn't want to be his girlfriend.
I looked at him and said, "If you don't bring me home, I'm gonna need to get someone else to pick up....like my Dad. And I'm telling you, you don't want my Dad to pick me up. Trust me. Because he's going to be furious that you're basically keeping me in this car for 30 minutes asking me this over and over."
Tom got such a scared look on his face, and he finally drove me home. He then proceeds to TRY to give me a goodnight kiss which I blocked.
My first date was with my cousin's friend. We texted for a while about a month and decided to meet in person. We had lunch and then we watched a movie and I invited him to be my plus one to my friends wedding that night. Well he was ok but when there is no chemistry, its just too bad. I was not attracted to him. Im just glad he decided to go to Japan so no more succeeding dates.
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Years ago when I got on dating sites (but not anymore!) I didn't have a picture up on my profile. I had emailed for awhile with a guy and we eventually agreed to meet at a restaurant for breakfast. He had such a look of disgust on his face the whole time we were talking. He finally told me I could be a twin of a girl who had done something really bad to him in a relationship, and he said you seem like a nice lady but I just could not date you. After he paid the bill he practically ran to his car. I've always been told I'm attractive so it must have been either a pretty awful person he dated before or he just didn't like red hair.
Okay, it wasn't my first date and I know I already posted in this thread. But, I just gotta share another disastrous date.
So, I tried online dating last summer. It was something new and figured I'd try it out and see how I like it. I met this guy, who was a Christian and everything, and we started to talk. He seemed fine. He was into fitness, God, people, so on and so forth. We set up a day to meet up, but he wanted to make the date uber special for me beacuse he knew I was busy with my three jobs I was working at and was stressed. So, it was definitely a date I was looking forward to.
He picked me up, it seemed fine. But I was still waiting for the surprised that he wanted to do for me. He then pulled into the parking lot of Wegman's (not sure if you get Wegman's where you're at, but it's a store). He turns to me, "I'll get you Chinese food. I don't have any money and nowhere to take you. So I'll grab you Chinese food, get something cheap, and then I'll take you to my house with my parents and we can watch something." Uh, weird. But I went along. In the store, he completley walked ahead of me and I was at least 5 feet behind him, trying to keep up for the entire time.
We went to his house and his parents were there, like he said. So that was awkward. If no one was home, I wouldn't have gone. I probablyt shouldn't have gone in the first place in case he was lying lol. But anyways, we went to his living room and he had bought alcohol and proceeded to try to get me drunk. He kept saying that. "I want you drunk, I want you drunk." I kept telling him no. His parents were in the kitchen and wasn't hearing any of this.
He then proceeded to sit really close to me and wanted to cuddle.
"Do you want to cuddle? Let's just cuddle." No.
"Man, you're boring." Okay.
"Let's just cuddle." No.
"Do you think I'm attractive?" I plead the fifth.
"Why won't you answer?" Why would you ask?
"I think you're super hot. You're a 10. I just want you to know what you think of me."
He then continues yelling out random compliments. Lke, we'll be sitting in his living room, watchin The Office, and then all of a sudden, I hear him yell, "Pretty smile!" or, "Smells good," or "Pretty face." I jumped a few times and just ignored him because I didn't know how to react. I mean, compliments are great. But the way he did them was nothing I've experienced before.
It was time for his medicine for diabetes. He asks me, "Do you want to see me put the shot in my stomach?" Oh, sure. Because that's what I've always wanted to see. I'm sorry you have diabetes, but please don't ask me that on the first date.
It was weird. Oh, and he got weird when he found out I've played the piano for 18 years. He kept saying, "Wow, that's hot." Over and over and over again.
So, I tried online dating last summer. It was something new and figured I'd try it out and see how I like it. I met this guy, who was a Christian and everything, and we started to talk. He seemed fine. He was into fitness, God, people, so on and so forth. We set up a day to meet up, but he wanted to make the date uber special for me beacuse he knew I was busy with my three jobs I was working at and was stressed. So, it was definitely a date I was looking forward to.
He picked me up, it seemed fine. But I was still waiting for the surprised that he wanted to do for me. He then pulled into the parking lot of Wegman's (not sure if you get Wegman's where you're at, but it's a store). He turns to me, "I'll get you Chinese food. I don't have any money and nowhere to take you. So I'll grab you Chinese food, get something cheap, and then I'll take you to my house with my parents and we can watch something." Uh, weird. But I went along. In the store, he completley walked ahead of me and I was at least 5 feet behind him, trying to keep up for the entire time.
We went to his house and his parents were there, like he said. So that was awkward. If no one was home, I wouldn't have gone. I probablyt shouldn't have gone in the first place in case he was lying lol. But anyways, we went to his living room and he had bought alcohol and proceeded to try to get me drunk. He kept saying that. "I want you drunk, I want you drunk." I kept telling him no. His parents were in the kitchen and wasn't hearing any of this.
He then proceeded to sit really close to me and wanted to cuddle.
"Do you want to cuddle? Let's just cuddle." No.
"Man, you're boring." Okay.
"Let's just cuddle." No.
"Do you think I'm attractive?" I plead the fifth.
"Why won't you answer?" Why would you ask?
"I think you're super hot. You're a 10. I just want you to know what you think of me."
He then continues yelling out random compliments. Lke, we'll be sitting in his living room, watchin The Office, and then all of a sudden, I hear him yell, "Pretty smile!" or, "Smells good," or "Pretty face." I jumped a few times and just ignored him because I didn't know how to react. I mean, compliments are great. But the way he did them was nothing I've experienced before.
It was time for his medicine for diabetes. He asks me, "Do you want to see me put the shot in my stomach?" Oh, sure. Because that's what I've always wanted to see. I'm sorry you have diabetes, but please don't ask me that on the first date.
It was weird. Oh, and he got weird when he found out I've played the piano for 18 years. He kept saying, "Wow, that's hot." Over and over and over again.
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My worst first date was with Suse Linux. It was a blind date, distrowatch.com set us up with each other. This was back in 2008 when Suse was stable, but a bit plain - not that I was going to hold it against her. Still, I could tell something was a bit off when I had to use FIVE cds to get her to come over. I gave her an Ipex desktop computer to play on. (Yes, Ipex is... or used to be a brand of computer.)
We talked together for a while, she was okay with the computer I gave her, but we could both tell it just wouldn't work out. I was accustomed to APT package managing, she used something else. I liked KDE's wizz-bang effects, she was rather bland. After a while we both agreed the relationship wasn't going anywhere and I replaced her with Kubuntu.
We still see each other occasionally in passing, but distrowatch.com isn't trying nearly as hard to hook her up with people anymore. And now I'm seeing Linux Mint anyway, so I wouldn't date Suse if she did want to try again.
We talked together for a while, she was okay with the computer I gave her, but we could both tell it just wouldn't work out. I was accustomed to APT package managing, she used something else. I liked KDE's wizz-bang effects, she was rather bland. After a while we both agreed the relationship wasn't going anywhere and I replaced her with Kubuntu.
We still see each other occasionally in passing, but distrowatch.com isn't trying nearly as hard to hook her up with people anymore. And now I'm seeing Linux Mint anyway, so I wouldn't date Suse if she did want to try again.
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Ya know, one of my most fondest memories was a first "friend" date with a guy named Charlie. He was a friend from work. A bunch of us decided to go hear a band in town and when a slow song was played, Charlie asked me to dance. He led me so well, it was like I hardly moved my feet, I was gliding in his arms. It was honestly magical but I had just met someone else. So you know how that goes. Anyhoo, I've never since danced with a man like I did with Charlie.
DATING TIP: Guys - learn to lead a lady around the dance floor.
DATING TIP: Guys - learn to lead a lady around the dance floor.
My first date was not very pleasant. I took her out to eat, then she wanted to go dancing. She acted like Debbie Downer the whole night! Everything with her was gloom, despair and agony on me! When I took her home, she told me that it will probably be a while before she let's me kiss her. She then proceeded to tell me that I need to make sure that I always call her before coming over to her apartment and NEVER show up unannounced because she might be in one of her depressed moods. This girl was coo coo for cocoa puffs! I never called her again.
This girl was coo coo for cocoa puffs! I never called her again.
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My first date was not very pleasant. I took her out to eat, then she wanted to go dancing. She acted like Debbie Downer the whole night! Everything with her was gloom, despair and agony on me! When I took her home, she told me that it will probably be a while before she let's me kiss her. She then proceeded to tell me that I need to make sure that I always call her before coming over to her apartment and NEVER show up unannounced because she might be in one of her depressed moods. This girl was coo coo for cocoa puffs! I never called her again.
This girl was coo coo for cocoa puffs! I never called her again.
