I have heard it said that crushes are selfish and love is selfless. Some people say that crushes aren't based on reality and you are liking an illusion of the person that you have conjured up in your mind. I have also heard that crushes are infatuations without any devotion or depth.
What is your definition of these two things? How are they different? I know we will likely all have different opinions, but different opinions are what I am hoping to hear.
What is your definition of these two things? How are they different? I know we will likely all have different opinions, but different opinions are what I am hoping to hear.