In general, it's hard to find rooms here sometimes. The Lobby is often cordoned off for "non-serious" discussion, Bible Study is often a trainwreck and not a place to just talk, and the other subcategories don't seem to particularly well used.
I'm a married guy in his late 20's. Sometimes I don't feel like there's a place to be in chat, either... so you're not alone in that problem. Welcome to CC, anyway!
Re: Finding a Christian woman - are you a member of a church?