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Yes, thank you sir, he said nasty things to me, i even said sorry to him, because somehow, i have a fault too, but he just said, he don't care what i think or what i say, he got so angry he was not like that before,maybe was just too embarrased he got caught or he thinks someone tricked him but as what you have said, i should not think what he thinks, because he doesn't even give a care to me as what he said.
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being "HIGH CALIBER" should include honesty...and I gave it as much as I could on that post without pure insult. God will never ask about someone's online 'romance' but HE will ask you about your their relationship with His Son, JESUS. If you keep that in mind...hopefully, the one who posted it will soon realize that 100 years from now, it will NOT matter how that online 'affair" went sour. It's 'water under the bridge" and actually, being TOTALLY HONEST this time: Being sweet and helpful is not always the way to make a positive influence when it comes to silliness. Example: JESUS did not Sweet talk the temple sellers. He made a whip, snapped it at them yelled and screamed (original Hebrew), turned over their tables, scattered their coins, set the animals free and much more. Imagine those temple sellers going home with no income, claiming that some Nazarene idiot went crazy and caused all kinds of damage!. Hurrah for JESUS, I say! Sometimes, you just can't 'sweet talk" yourself into a situation.
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But atleast you should have said this first than your first comment, sometimes someone just need a heart to understand and an ear who can listen to lessen the pain, it is right not to sweet talk but not at this time, when i am vulnerable and all i want are some advices if what i did was right or wrong, because if your mind and heart is hurting, your reasoning is impaired, and you are right, online relationship is a waste of time, but someday i can pat my self and say NICE TRY, because i thought he is the one, christian, kind and all. And sometimes we need to undergo this to be matured and get closer to God more. Because He is close to the brokenhearted
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setapartgirl, some will tell you that, you have not met the person in real life and how much can it hurt you? These words can hurt one all the more, I know that very well. 
But, I want to encourage you that, you are you and your feelings were played and taken advantaged of by someone else. Does anyone deserve these kind of pain? No, no one! Emotional hurts feel really bad within a person, truly because when you are injured physically, you can apply some medication or take some pain killers to stop the pain but emotional injuries need us to go through processes that may take a week, a month, a year or even a few years to get out. Don't rush the process but acknowledging the pain in you, is the first step. Buzz me anytime you want to.
But, I want to encourage you that, you are you and your feelings were played and taken advantaged of by someone else. Does anyone deserve these kind of pain? No, no one! Emotional hurts feel really bad within a person, truly because when you are injured physically, you can apply some medication or take some pain killers to stop the pain but emotional injuries need us to go through processes that may take a week, a month, a year or even a few years to get out. Don't rush the process but acknowledging the pain in you, is the first step. Buzz me anytime you want to.
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setapartgirl, some will tell you that, you have not met the person in real life and how much can it hurt you? These words can hurt one all the more, I know that very well. But, I want to encourage you that, you are you and your feelings were played and taken advantaged of by someone else. Does anyone deserve these kind of pain? No, no one! Emotional hurts feel really bad within a person, truly because when you are injured physically, you can apply some medication or take some pain killers to stop the pain but emotional injuries need us to go through processes that may take a week, a month, a year or even a few years to get out. Don't rush the process but acknowledging the pain in you, is the first step. Buzz me anytime you want to.
But, I want to encourage you that, you are you and your feelings were played and taken advantaged of by someone else. Does anyone deserve these kind of pain? No, no one! Emotional hurts feel really bad within a person, truly because when you are injured physically, you can apply some medication or take some pain killers to stop the pain but emotional injuries need us to go through processes that may take a week, a month, a year or even a few years to get out. Don't rush the process but acknowledging the pain in you, is the first step. Buzz me anytime you want to.
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Of course, it is ok to cry! Cry all you want. You have been hurt emotionally and your feelings had been played out. Even a person whom had been bullied in the cyber world suffer tremendous pain. What more about you? You took the guy seriously and accepted whatever he said as the truth. How can that not be painful? Your trust had been taken advantaged off as well. The cyber world today is no longer the same as it was in the 1990s when I meet mostly nice people there! These days, I've met at least 90% nasty people but thus far, I've truly enjoyed myself here in ChristianChat.
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Of course, it is ok to cry! Cry all you want. You have been hurt emotionally and your feelings had been played out. Even a person whom had been bullied in the cyber world suffer tremendous pain. What more about you? You took the guy seriously and accepted whatever he said as the truth. How can that not be painful? Your trust had been taken advantaged off as well. The cyber world today is no longer the same as it was in the 1990s when I meet mostly nice people there! These days, I've met at least 90% nasty people but thus far, I've truly enjoyed myself here in ChristianChat.
That's true sis, here in christian chat, most people are nice, and i am so thankful about this site and its people who help each other, in times like this, yeah i will cry to my hearts content, and then move on after, thank you so much, to all of you, for the encouraging words, God is good.
Setpartagirl: I'm hoping I'm not reading too much into this. At some point, did you two drift off out of contact? If so, then he might have felt like you were stalking him. However, if you were still talking and considering a potential relationship up to the time you created a fake account, then you did what you needed to do to find out the truth. Sometimes the truth stinks, but it's better to hear, then finding out after a marriage.
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We are really still pretty much in contact, we even chatting while im also talking to him using another fake account, what hurts the most is, he lead me on, said he wants me, we are not in a relationship but let's say we are almost there, planning to be on this place, going to be this place, working on this same place, and all those stuff,
Then when we had an argument he said he didnt lead me on, he never propose to me or anyone else, he said you are not my wife. Blah blah blah, making those plans are not leading on in your point of view? And why he is so angry so much? Because he was embarrassed?