Hey Singles,
In a recent poll, Zeroturbulence asked us what was lacking in our life, and throughout most of the poll, self-esteem was the number-one answer (later tied by diet/fitness.)
What, exactly, would boost your self-esteem? And what would cause that change to be permanent, as opposed to a compliment that makes us feel good for a while but soon fades away?
People often talk about self-esteem and the lack of it in their lives, but I'm curious as to what people actually think would make a meaningful, positive change in how they view themselves.
I have often heard from other Christians that "self-esteem" is more of a worldly term, as it puts the focus on ourselves, and that as we become closer to God, "self-esteem" issues disappear, because we are looking to God and not ourselves anymore.
Do you agree?
What do you think is the answer to raising someone's self-esteem to healthy levels, and keeping them that way?
(I'm going to try to write a poll--give me a few minutes. ) I'm going to make it anonymous and multiple-choice, but please, don't let that be your ONLY answer.
I'd really like to hear what you have to say here in the thread, too.
In a recent poll, Zeroturbulence asked us what was lacking in our life, and throughout most of the poll, self-esteem was the number-one answer (later tied by diet/fitness.)
What, exactly, would boost your self-esteem? And what would cause that change to be permanent, as opposed to a compliment that makes us feel good for a while but soon fades away?
People often talk about self-esteem and the lack of it in their lives, but I'm curious as to what people actually think would make a meaningful, positive change in how they view themselves.
I have often heard from other Christians that "self-esteem" is more of a worldly term, as it puts the focus on ourselves, and that as we become closer to God, "self-esteem" issues disappear, because we are looking to God and not ourselves anymore.
Do you agree?
What do you think is the answer to raising someone's self-esteem to healthy levels, and keeping them that way?
(I'm going to try to write a poll--give me a few minutes. ) I'm going to make it anonymous and multiple-choice, but please, don't let that be your ONLY answer.
I'd really like to hear what you have to say here in the thread, too.