In Heaven, How Are Christians Going to Get Along With Each Other?

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seoulsearch

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Hey folks,

Since the Singles Forum has (hopefully) temporarily turned into The Bible Forum Addendum anyway...

I was wondering. How are Christians going to get along in heaven, since one look at the Bible Forum and other various threads is a reminder that we often disagree to the point of calling names or questioning each other's salvation?

I've always heard it said that when we get to heaven, you'll see some people there you would have never expected to see, and you'll also realize a lot of people you thought would be there... aren't.

When I read about the "lion lying down with the lamb", I often wonder if that's directed at humans and not animals.

So, how will heaven be different?

* Will only people with the exact same beliefs (aside from believing in Jesus as their Savior, of course) make it to heaven?

* Will we all suddenly not care so anymore about what we're willing to fight tooth and nail over here?

* Will it be because we'll be without sin, and can finally let go of our differences in order to accept people?

I was thinking of an incidence I know of at a church in which the senior pastor promised the youth/assistant pastor a larger role in the church, and, several years down the road, the chance to take over leading the congregation.

These two men had the exact same theological beliefs. But the senior pastor was getting older and thinking about what kind of impact he would leave behind, and he became concerned that this young man was gaining too much popularity and "stealing" his sheep.

The younger pastor was suddenly no longer allowed to preach, and was even denied the opportunity to speak about his missionary trips in order to try to raise funding. He eventually left the church, and the senior pastor wasn't exactly sorry to see him go (and was actually trying to get him to leave.)

Please don't get caught up in just this particular example. My only reason for giving it is that these two men have the SAME beliefs in faith, but enough personal differences to kill the relationship and cause a split within in a congregation.

But in heaven, how will differences like this be solved? Will we not remember the arguments we had with people on earth?

Or, because pride will no longer have a stranglehold on any of us, will we just be able to see each other with the clear, sinless eyes God intended? Just something I've been thinking about for a while.

Thoughts and Scriptures are welcome.

And please, let's not argue in this thread, but rather, talk about the day when we'll all put our differences aside. Thanks in advance! :)
 
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Donkeyfish07

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What I get out of the Bible regarding that is that we will be completely incorruptable when that time comes. We are extremely vulnerable to corruption as it is in our nature now, despite our best attempts to be pure we take our eyes of the ball for once second and poof, we screwed something up. This literally won't be possible after resurrection. Completely incorruptable. When nobody is corrupt or even capable of it, I imagine no one will even think about how to get along.
 
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what about people you fear will they be in heaven?
 

seoulsearch

OutWrite Trouble
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people like when you see them , they might you feel you should not be near them.
Interesting question, Shamrocker.

The Bible says that "There is no fear in love; perfect love drives out fear," 1 John 4:18. Although this passage in in the context of punishment (perfect love casts out any fear of condemnation), heaven is a place completely enveloped in God's perfect love, so I can only guess what we won't have uneasy or fearful feelings about people in heaven, even if we did in this life.

However, I could see myself having feelings of fearful respect around many there (in awe of their faith).
 
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I'm talking about a man who was at my old church. who as a kid I felt that i should not be alone around him. turned out he somewhat molested his girls ( who are around my age) I as him not to long ago and I had that same fear I had as a child.
 

seoulsearch

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I'm talking about a man who was at my old church. who as a kid I felt that i should not be alone around him. turned out he somewhat molested his girls ( who are around my age) I as him not to long ago and I had that same fear I had as a child.
The Holy Spirit is really incredible at keeping us out of harm's way. I've been in situations too where something didn't seem right... But I've also asked God many, many times why so many others aren't spared such grievances.

I have a personal interest in people who have been through very extreme things, and I think about what it will be like if/when someone in heaven has to face the fact that his/her abuser is there, too.

In my earthly mind, it's admittedly impossible for me to comprehend. I don't know if being sinless somehow... "changes everything"?

Is the greatest miracle of all going to be that God will somehow gather us all together and no one will harm or abuse anyone else?
 

Lynx

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Good question in the original post. The answer lies in the reason why people argue so vehemently, to the point of questioning each others salvation, over such issues. Why do they get so uptight over these things?

Hint: people who have many things to take care of and worry about are not busy arguing on a forum.
 

mailmandan

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By the time we get to heaven, we will be saved from the PRESENCE of sin and will receive our glorified bodies. No more arguing, fighting or disagreeing in heaven. It's hard for me to imagine the kind of peace and joy that we will experience in heaven after living in this fallen world for almost 50 years! ;)
 

seoulsearch

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The funny thing to me is that the "Liberal Christian" thread took off like wildfire and is still burning up the Singles Forum with no sign of stopping. (Don't get me wrong. I made at least 5 posts in that thread myself.)

But then make a thread about People Getting Along and...

Suddenly you can hear crickets chirping. LOL.

The irony is so thick that you could cut it with a *shimmering sword*. *reference to the Liberal thread*
 

Lynx

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Sorry, I got here as fast as I could. They don't let me keep up with the forum while I'm at work y'know... :p
 

seoulsearch

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I always appreciate your (and everyone else's) input, Lynx.

The reason I don't write blogs is because I don't find them to be interactive.

For me, it's all about the back-and-forth communication, not just me writing myself to death with only 4-word (or 4-letter :rolleyes:) replies in response.
 

cinder

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Actually, I've been thinking about making a thread on what is the true measure of Christian maturity. Because one thing you have to notice when you look at the Bible, it's not operating in supernatural power (see Matt 7) or knowing the scriptures inside and out and being able to discuss them intellectually (see the Pharisees) that qualifies someone as a Christian. So if I had to guess, I think a lot of the arguers and the people who live to cause division in the name of doctrinal correctness might not be making it in (and people should be glad that I'm not the one who gets to make that call).

As for how things can be peaceable in heaven, we usually fight because we feel threatened in some way. Well in heaven, we'll be beyond death or physical harm so no threats from that quarter, and we'll be beyond pride and therefore beyond shame so no feelings of being threatened socially either. Add to that the fact that God will be right there to tell us exactly how it is (though there may be some BDF people that would tell God he was interpreting his word wrong) so the uncertainty of who is right is gone as well.

As for those who may encounter someone they have every right to hate and never want to see again in heaven, I don't know how it will work out. If I had to guess I would guess something like just like once a difficult experience that accomplished something great is over (giving birth to a child, working hard for a degree, etc.) the negative memories seem to fade and lose power, so when we get to eternity and we know all the bad is ended, maybe the things that happened on earth won't have such a personal impact (and there's that verse about our sufferings achieving glory for us so maybe there's a very tangible way we'll see what was accomplished through the bad things in life).
 
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We're going to be so happy being in the presence of the Lord God Almighty that is goes beyond understanding. We're going to rejoice together where love and joy reign supreme for all eternity. So much so I can even see myself lovingly hugging every slow driver that was ever in the fast lane.
 

seoulsearch

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We're going to be so happy being in the presence of the Lord God Almighty that is goes beyond understanding. We're going to rejoice together where love and joy reign supreme for all eternity. So much so I can even see myself lovingly hugging every slow driver that was ever in the fast lane.
Utah, why is it that when I get an image of you "lovingly hugging someone"... it's while you're wearing a set of false teeth, setting out a whoopie cushion, and carrying a large weapon in your other hand... (Hope I'm remembering your old post correctly about the... whoopie cushions and dentures?!)

Perhaps I should refrain from the bad humor, as it doesn't seem to contribute to helping others get along well. :D

 
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Utah, why is it that when I get an image of you "lovingly hugging someone"... it's while you're wearing a set of false teeth, setting out a whoopie cushion, and carrying a large weapon in your other hand... (Hope I'm remembering your old post correctly about the... whoopie cushions and dentures?!)

Perhaps I should refrain from the bad humor, as it doesn't seem to contribute to helping others get along well. :D
I'm all about bad humor so keep bringing it. And yeah, I used to work in an emergency department and used to break out false teeth and whoopie cushons. :p
 
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Tintin

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First of all, our eternal destination is the New Heavens and New Earth. Here, not up in the sky. Secondly, we will all be one in Christ. United, but the truest selves we've ever been, because we will know fully who we are in Christ and how much He loves us. Thirdly, there will be not sin or its consequences. I struggle to imagine such things and I have a great imagination. So I think, suffice to say, it's cool to speculate, but we're in good hands, God's got it sorted.
 

Pipp

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We'll be in glorified bodies and no sin will be present...the Bible says the former things will pass away....I think we'll be so occupied with praising God for saving our souls that nothing else will matter.