Hi Singles!
The Interracial Dating thread made me think about the fact that I have known some people who seemed very intent on marrying within their own race, and others equally intent on marrying someone from a different race than their own.
Do you think that such preferences can be from God?
For me, as a single person, the story of Samson marrying his first wife (not Delilah) contains one of THE most intriguing passages in Scripture:
(Samson's marriage to a Philistine woman, Judges 14, starting at verse 3
Then his father and his mother said to him, "Is there no woman among the daughters of your relatives, or among all our people, that you go to take a wife from the uncircumcised Philistines?" But Samson said to his father, "Get her for me, for she looks good to me." However, his father and mother did not know that it was of the LORD, for He was seeking an occasion against the Philistines. Now at that time the Philistines were ruling over Israel.
One of my study Bibles translates verse 4 as, "His parents did not know that this was from the Lord, because the Lord was seeking an opportunity to confront the Philistines."
1. Samson, throughout his life, was attracted to Philistine women, and seemed to have his heart set on choosing women from among the enemies of Israel.
How much of this attraction, if any, was influenced by God? I am certainly NOT saying that God causes us to fall in love with certain people, because He gives us free will, but yet... this passage seems to show us yet another example of how God has His hand in everything.
2. What part of this whole situation was "from the Lord"? Did God put it on Samson's heart to marry a Philistine? After all, Samson had a long history of plenty of rebellious choices all on his own.
3. Do you believe God could tell you marry someone no one else approves of? How would you know if it was God or just your own heart wanting what it wants?
4. If you believe God wanted you to go through with a marriage no one else agreed with, would you still go through with it?
I'm looking forward to your thoughts, opinions, and Scriptures that might address this topic, as I'm not sure I've ever heard a 100% surefire answer.
The Interracial Dating thread made me think about the fact that I have known some people who seemed very intent on marrying within their own race, and others equally intent on marrying someone from a different race than their own.
Do you think that such preferences can be from God?
For me, as a single person, the story of Samson marrying his first wife (not Delilah) contains one of THE most intriguing passages in Scripture:
(Samson's marriage to a Philistine woman, Judges 14, starting at verse 3
Then his father and his mother said to him, "Is there no woman among the daughters of your relatives, or among all our people, that you go to take a wife from the uncircumcised Philistines?" But Samson said to his father, "Get her for me, for she looks good to me." However, his father and mother did not know that it was of the LORD, for He was seeking an occasion against the Philistines. Now at that time the Philistines were ruling over Israel.
One of my study Bibles translates verse 4 as, "His parents did not know that this was from the Lord, because the Lord was seeking an opportunity to confront the Philistines."
1. Samson, throughout his life, was attracted to Philistine women, and seemed to have his heart set on choosing women from among the enemies of Israel.
How much of this attraction, if any, was influenced by God? I am certainly NOT saying that God causes us to fall in love with certain people, because He gives us free will, but yet... this passage seems to show us yet another example of how God has His hand in everything.
2. What part of this whole situation was "from the Lord"? Did God put it on Samson's heart to marry a Philistine? After all, Samson had a long history of plenty of rebellious choices all on his own.
3. Do you believe God could tell you marry someone no one else approves of? How would you know if it was God or just your own heart wanting what it wants?
4. If you believe God wanted you to go through with a marriage no one else agreed with, would you still go through with it?
I'm looking forward to your thoughts, opinions, and Scriptures that might address this topic, as I'm not sure I've ever heard a 100% surefire answer.