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Hey everyone,
First time poster here, in need of a little spiritual guidance here and I don't know where else to turn.
I little back story about my situation i'm 27 and until a few years ago was in the military and that is where most of my problems started. While in my wife left me for another man and sent me into a terrible downward spiral emotionally and physically. I started drinking every night while not at work, became addicted to pornography which sent me down even more. Basically to sum it up I hit rock bottom, when I downloaded something I shouldn't have and was charged and discharge from the military for possession of child pornography. It was terrible, I felt terrible, I've asked forgiveness for it over and over again. I've made peace with it and put it behind me.
Since then I went back to school, got a career that I love, have a great job, I know god has been there every step of the way even if I did turn my back on him at times, I feel like ever since then, I have been split in half. Its really hard to explane and have make sense. One part of me is a caring loving individual that would honestly do anything for anyone, no matter what the cost, that side of me is always trying to move forward and not looking at my past. The other part of me, and I know it sounds stupid, is SO full of hate, so afraid rejection so I don't go out with anyone, so upset at everyone especially my self. I would go as far as to calling that side of me a sociopath. I struggle every day trying to keep that part of me away and every day it truly is a struggle.
So what I'm asking is anyone has any advice for me on how I can keep this battle inside of me at bay, or any scripture versus that I could read that would help. I feel like i'm on a roller coaster and its headed back towards the ground and I want so bad to just keep up but its so hard. I pray every day for help with relationships and to help be find the right woman in my life, but I never get answers, I ask for "flashing billboards" on what I can do to just move on, please if anyone has any help or advice I would be more than willing to answer and questions.
Thanks again for the help.
First time poster here, in need of a little spiritual guidance here and I don't know where else to turn.
I little back story about my situation i'm 27 and until a few years ago was in the military and that is where most of my problems started. While in my wife left me for another man and sent me into a terrible downward spiral emotionally and physically. I started drinking every night while not at work, became addicted to pornography which sent me down even more. Basically to sum it up I hit rock bottom, when I downloaded something I shouldn't have and was charged and discharge from the military for possession of child pornography. It was terrible, I felt terrible, I've asked forgiveness for it over and over again. I've made peace with it and put it behind me.
Since then I went back to school, got a career that I love, have a great job, I know god has been there every step of the way even if I did turn my back on him at times, I feel like ever since then, I have been split in half. Its really hard to explane and have make sense. One part of me is a caring loving individual that would honestly do anything for anyone, no matter what the cost, that side of me is always trying to move forward and not looking at my past. The other part of me, and I know it sounds stupid, is SO full of hate, so afraid rejection so I don't go out with anyone, so upset at everyone especially my self. I would go as far as to calling that side of me a sociopath. I struggle every day trying to keep that part of me away and every day it truly is a struggle.
So what I'm asking is anyone has any advice for me on how I can keep this battle inside of me at bay, or any scripture versus that I could read that would help. I feel like i'm on a roller coaster and its headed back towards the ground and I want so bad to just keep up but its so hard. I pray every day for help with relationships and to help be find the right woman in my life, but I never get answers, I ask for "flashing billboards" on what I can do to just move on, please if anyone has any help or advice I would be more than willing to answer and questions.
Thanks again for the help.