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I am looking for serious help and opinion. 21 years old, STRONG sex drive, do not have a girlfriend and don't see one in the near future. Which means realistically speaking not getting married for 10 plus years. Which means not getting sexual release for 10 PLUS YEARS. I can go 3 or 4 days max pushing away wanted thoughts and physical desire to see a girl naked. Especially with almost every single girl out there now in spandex pants, for example at the gym. They may as well not be wearing clothes, their clothes perfectly shape their naked body anyways.
I am seriously struggling with this, been struggling with masturbation to pictures and videos for years. Only within the last year have I seriously felt guilty enough to truly want to stop. Have I stopped yet? No. I manage to get up to a week, then I fail. Every time I hate myself afterwards and fear punishment. I ask God for forgiveness, feel strong for a few days, then there come those feelings slowly but surely. It is a continual awful cycle for the Christian boy or girl trying to stay pure.
I have now wondered if I can look and masturbate to naked girls without sinning. I feel as though enjoying the beauty of a woman naked and appreciating her body is different than "wanting to have sex" with the woman. Now is this justifying sin? I've used this excuse twice and felt completely guilty afterwards both times. But I find online there are so many different opinions.
People say just look away, do this, do that, but none of these things truly take away the desire to see a woman naked. Remember.... I don't plan on getting married or finding a girl for a LONG TIME. I can't even go 5 days without going crazy over this constant battle? Need serious help. Thank you for taking the time to read my thoughts. I am struggling big time and will not receive peace from this until I have overcome it
I am seriously struggling with this, been struggling with masturbation to pictures and videos for years. Only within the last year have I seriously felt guilty enough to truly want to stop. Have I stopped yet? No. I manage to get up to a week, then I fail. Every time I hate myself afterwards and fear punishment. I ask God for forgiveness, feel strong for a few days, then there come those feelings slowly but surely. It is a continual awful cycle for the Christian boy or girl trying to stay pure.
I have now wondered if I can look and masturbate to naked girls without sinning. I feel as though enjoying the beauty of a woman naked and appreciating her body is different than "wanting to have sex" with the woman. Now is this justifying sin? I've used this excuse twice and felt completely guilty afterwards both times. But I find online there are so many different opinions.
People say just look away, do this, do that, but none of these things truly take away the desire to see a woman naked. Remember.... I don't plan on getting married or finding a girl for a LONG TIME. I can't even go 5 days without going crazy over this constant battle? Need serious help. Thank you for taking the time to read my thoughts. I am struggling big time and will not receive peace from this until I have overcome it