Ladies are you ready to take his last name?

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Yeraza_Bats

Yeraza_Bats

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Yeah, its good to keep in mind that we are not a good and perfect people, and that were all gonna mess up and do wrong at some point : p I think a bit part of being ready for marriage is accepting both that you are not gonna find a perfect partner, as well as accepting that you yourself are not perfect either : p
 
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HisHolly

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Marriage is a ministry.. The husband is supposed to "groom" her for himself just like Christ does the church..
I love myself more bc of the man God put in my life.
Being fully "adequate" is a lie and an unrealistic expectation that keeps women that are broken from feeling worthy..
 
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LiJo

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seoulsearch said:
They'll probably react the same way they react to seeing an Asian with an American first name and a Dutch last name, Mel. :p
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I grew up with a Polish last name, I'm half Asian and half Hispanic......it was a great ice breaker. :p


I would take his last name...:rolleyes:
 
Nautilus

Nautilus

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Other than soul ties being a ridiculous concept not bad.
 
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sassylady

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Yeraza_Bats said:
Is there anything in the bible about a woman taking a mans last name? I would not be bothered if a woman didnt take my last name : p Unless it actually were in the bible.

And for the submitting part, I used to be all against having to be the leader in my old life before Him, and tbh I still feel weird about it : p Im totally willing to obey Him and try now, but having a wife who is totally willing to console me in that position would be a huge plus : p
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Read Genesis 5:2 about the wife taking the husband's name
 
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Messy

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I'm ready but is he ready, that's the question.

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I'm so happy with my new pen pal who doesn't mind if I stalk him. I warned him I was clingy and stalkerish. It doesn't matter to him. Maybe because he safely lives an ocean away and I can't ever really bother him anyway LOL.
 
Lynx

Lynx

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Messy said:
I'm ready but is he ready, that's the question.

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I'm so happy with my new pen pal who doesn't mind if I stalk him. I warned him I was clingy and stalkerish. It doesn't matter to him. Maybe because he safely lives an ocean away and I can't ever really bother him anyway LOL.
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Sirk

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I think you ladies need to completely lose your own identity and take on the entire name of your spouse.
 
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crosstweed

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If I were to come into this thread without reading it, my first response would be, "No; I'm still working on the fake ID picture..."
 
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