Where are all the single men over 50

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countrycharm

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This question is not meant to offend anyone, Is it any single blackmen over 50 left?
 

Adstar

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We are where we are...

But why would a single man over 50 want to get married ?
Why would a single man over 50 want to start a family so late in his life?
Surely it would be very unwise for a man in his 50s to become a dad when he is
less able to be a good dad to a child..

Men want to get married and have children when they are 22-35..
So like a blacksmith a wise woman will strike when the iron is hot.
 
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Ugly

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We are where we are...

But why would a single man over 50 want to get married ?
Why would a single man over 50 want to start a family so late in his life?
Surely it would be very unwise for a man in his 50s to become a dad when he is
less able to be a good dad to a child..

Men want to get married and have children when they are 22-35..
So like a blacksmith a wise woman will strike when the iron is hot.
Because not every man over 50 is you?
And who said anything about starting a family? I don't see that anywhere in the OP.
Can you really speak for all men and dictate to women what all men want?
Sounds to me like you need to learn to start speaking ONLY for Yourself and stop speaking for all men, or even all men over 50.
And stop making presumptions about what other peoples intentions are. Seeking marriage doesn't always mean having children either. Some people just want to find a person to love and live with.
Sounds to me like you have some issues.
 
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Mitspa

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I have a black man as my avatar :) ...but sorry I'm white and under 50 But don't count us younger white guys out ...we have a lot to offer as well :)
 

Born_Again

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Except this much younger white guy LOL I have absolutely nothing I wish to offer to anyone over 50 LOL Unless you have a great retirement plan... then might be willing to consider HAHAHA!!!! Just kidding. I couldnt resist LOL
 

azlightsout

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This question is not meant to offend anyone, Is it any single blackmen over 50 left?
What can u offer a man over 50 that he doesn't have already ? Happy life? Peace of mind? What do u bring to the table?
 
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sassylady

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Not that this is always true but my dad told me once that if there are good men over 50 they are married because they are good men.
 
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countrycharm

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What can u offer a man over 50 that he doesn't have already ? Happy life? Peace of mind? What do u bring to the table?
What do you mean asking me what I have to bring to the table. Where is your table
 
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Yahweh_is_gracious

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I'm too young, the wrong race, and I think girls are icky. Man, I just can't ever win. *pout*
 

azlightsout

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What do you mean asking me what I have to bring to the table. Where is your table
I referee an older mens basketball league and the guys that are single aren't even looking . Most live alone and have a good relationship with the ex and the kids . The recovery part of a divorce takes alot out of a man. So my question to u is what do u bring to the table that a stable 50 year old doesn't have? Most guys will want to hear your story .
 
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countrycharm

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You do not qualify for a response from me you are too young
 

azlightsout

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You do not qualify for a response from me you are too young
Im not looking - im tring to help u out - but God is GOOD and i hope the lord helps u in your search - Good luck and God bless
 

Angelsnow

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There are plenty of good men (and women) over age 50 who are single. Some are recently divorced. Some lost a spouse. Things happen. People make mistakes. That is called life..and being human. So...i sure hope...God has saved me ....ONE good guy. (he is allowed to be younger than I am). And I sure hope....you also feel the same way. Judge only...based on how you are treated. (dont judge based on age) There are plenty of men...that prefer older women. A younger guy...could keep up with you and your children. I'll be praying God leads the right man...into your life. May God be with you!!!!
 

Lynx

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Not that this is always true but my dad told me once that if there are good men over 50 they are married because they are good men.
If I'm still single when I turn 50, that means I'm not a good man?
 
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Ultimatum77

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This question is not meant to offend anyone, Is it any single blackmen over 50 left?
I'm offended...as it discriminates against those < 50 of which I am a part......hahaha jk....the joke was just there for the taking :)
 
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Ultimatum77

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If I'm still single when I turn 50, that means I'm not a good man?
Dude loaded question....can't wait for the spectacular answers that will follow.... :)
 

Fenner

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If I'm still single when I turn 50, that means I'm not a good man?
Probably, I think you should get married ASAP , just in case. ;)
 

Fenner

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I qualify, but you don't want to run into me in a dark alley.
Well you're a Penguins fan, you got that going for you. Go Pens!!!