Being Content

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LazyDaisy88

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I may take some heat for what I’m about to say. You can disagree if you want. That’s your choice and I won’t say that you’re wrong for stating your personal opinion. This has been something that’s been on my mind for a while, but something presented itself today that really made me think about it. I was on Facebook earlier today and a friend of mine was talking about her single life. Not an issue. She then preceded to say that God needed to hurry up and send her somebody because she was no longer content with being single. That's where I found the problem. Immediately my mind went to Philippians 4:11 and 1 Timothy 6:6. We can be satisfied in our life through Christ, whether we are single or married. At times I feel that we as singles get too focused on who the right one is for us instead of putting our full attention on being the person that God wants us to be and BEING the right one for someone else. We must learn to be fully content in Jesus and whatever position we are in life. If one isn’t content in Christ or being single for the time being, will that individual be truly content in marriage? Another question, what if marriage isn't in God's plan for that individual, will he or she still be content?
 
zeroturbulence

zeroturbulence

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I read that as, "Immediately my mind went to Philippines.." :rolleyes:
 
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Ugly

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This has actually been a common theme on this site, and one that has often been taught by others here often. In fact this site is where i learned the idea of being content in my singleness. So i doubt you'll have many here who disagree since this is the very thing they have been teaching here for years.
Though many here do seem to think we are somewhat 'owed' marriage and that it is some sort of biblical promise. But that you still need to be content until then. I've actually taken a lot of flack for saying that marriage is not promised to everyone.
 
Pipp

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If you ask God to help you be content and give you grace to accept whatever he has for you... it can happen. I'm living proof :)
 
azlightsout

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LazyDaisy88 said:
She then preceded to say that God needed to hurry up and send her somebody because she was no longer content with being single.
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Wonder what made her say that . Is she lonely or is she tired of seeing other women in relationships? Her desperation would be a turn off for me but to each his own ....
 
Lynx

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To everything there is a season... A time to be content and a time to push for what you need.

How do you know what time it is? Well that's where God comes in. :cool:
 
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LazyDaisy88

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I said that about the disagreement because I'm sure there are those who like you said think they are owed marriage.My friend for instance didn't like what I had to say. I just can't help but feel a little concerned about the way some people think.They tend to believe they know better than God. Like you mentioned marriage isn't intended for everyone and I had asked her if she would be happy if God wanted her remain single, she told me no. That just shows that she's not only discontented with being single, but also with God.
Ugly said:
This has actually been a common theme on this site, and one that has often been taught by others here often. In fact this site is where i learned the idea of being content in my singleness. So i doubt you'll have many here who disagree since this is the very thing they have been teaching here for years.
Though many here do seem to think we are somewhat 'owed' marriage and that it is some sort of biblical promise. But that you still need to be content until then. I've actually taken a lot of flack for saying that marriage is not promised to everyone.
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Yeraza_Bats

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I think alot of people believe that once they fall in love and get married, that all their dreams will be acheived, and theyll never desire anything ever again, and be completely fulfilled. Life has taught me differently, though : p Youll still have to deal with getting along, dealing with things you dont like about each other, and other disputes. One person in the couple may suddenly have the need to be affectionate and share their love with the other, while the other is not up to it and just wants to be alone for a while : p You will both have to deal with each others struggles and difficulties, and work in order to keep the relationship together.

Nothing will ever make you feel "fulfilled", to this day nothing Ive gained or achieved has fulfilled me in my life, leaving me desire-less forever and ever : p I have found that just allowing yourself to be content with what you already have is the best path to take, and I strongly agree with what you have posted here : p

I also think its wrong when people talk as if they deserve to be given a partner, and talk as if God is keeping them from happiness because they dont have what they want. I am rejoiceful that I have peace of mind and am not being tormented or left in pain and despair. I wish others could see how important this is, and help change their focus from their wants to what they already have and could be without. Most people will just become annoyed and angry with you if you point this out to them, though. In my experience anyway.
 
Born_Again

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The link to this thread should be posted on all the "Sigh... I wish I wasnt single " threads LOL :D
 
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