What the gentlemen forgot to say was welcome guriya. We're glad you're here and this is a great place to come for fellowship. I'm sure it's tough being both a Christian and an older unmarried woman in pakistan. Well done for sticking to the Lord's commands in a difficult situation.
As you can probably tell by the guys' responses, you're unlikely to get a good guy responding positively to a post like this around here. Please do be careful as it is much worse to end up in a bad marriage than to remain single, and posts like this can easily attract the worst kind of guys. Do stick around and become part of our little community though, it's still a pretty good place to be, even if you don't find the perfect man here (there are some pretty good ones lurking about that make great friends).