I think I stated my case to support HawkFan pretty well. The statistics don't lie, and if you honestly took a look at society as it is today compared to only 50 years ago, you would see the major change. Only in the last 50 years have things been different. Throughout the entire history of mankind, women were women and men were men. You wonder why there are so many divorces and older singles nowadays. You have your answer if you look at history.
You didnt state your case well at all. Are you at college? Dont they teach you there to look at an argument from all sides and if you actually form an opinion then to bring said evidentiary support you claim to have?
Your statement is so bland and vague. Human history is big, arent you going to clarify which bits in history exactly illustrate this? There are hundreds of reasons why divorce is so prominent today and you want to blame every single divorce on feminism?? Thats not a strong case at all.
I laugh cos its funny. The only people who have clearly disagreed with my post is a guy who does not wish to stop verbally abusing women nor give up his porn. And thats not Christian anyway so he doesnt count. Ive had 4 private email messages from men who agree with this post and every female has agreed with me that they do want a man who wants to actively grow in the fruit of the spirit. Every other male has just chosen to get defensive and bitter and claim the worlds ruin is womens fault. Its everybodys fault!
The whole point for this thread was to make guys think - So if I want a girlfriend so badly, and Ive been praying for ages, what have I not been doing to encourage this important social interaction? Who have I been allowing to influence me in regards to this? Friends who drink and party and hook up? A father who used to beat you up as a kid? An older godly man whose been around the block a few times and knows far more than you do? Men dont become men by themselves.
Paul told Timothy to appoint elders and Pastors in the church so that they would lead fathfully. He gave them personality requirements so that the men in the church would look up to them as models for themselves and their own families.
3:1 Here is a trustworthy saying: Whoever aspires to be an overseer desires a noble task. 2 Now the overseer is to be above reproach, faithful to his wife, temperate, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, 3 not given to drunkenness, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. 4 He must manage his own family well and see that his children obey him, and he must do so in a manner worthy of full respect. 5 (If anyone does not know how to manage his own family, how can he take care of God's church?) 6 He must not be a recent convert, or he may become conceited and fall under the same judgment as the devil. 7 He must also have a good reputation with outsiders, so that he will not fall into disgrace and into the devil's trap.
If God didnt want men to follow the lead of their male superiors, why the heck would that be in the bible then huh? And if church elders and older men are to mentor young men how to be loving leaders, then where are they going to be introduced for the first time huh? CHURCH!!
Submitting and leadership go hand in hand. Leading doesnt mean your more intelliegent, more competent and superior to your wife. And submitting doesnt mean, negating your own thoughts and wishes and acting more inferior. Ephesians says:
5:21 Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ. 22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her
Paul is saying SUBMITT TO ONE ANOTHER. and then goes on to say that in a marriage a husband has his wife's back and a wife has her husbands back. I serve you, you serve me (because we love one another and Jesus). There is no taking only giving.