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Ok u want to know where the good christian guys are? They are everywhere. The thing is that you have to be willing to look past their imperfections...
Have u ever heard the story about the woman who was expecting Jesus to shwo up for dinner? first a lame man came and she shewed him away, then a poor man came and she shwewed him away. Then a blind man came and she shewed him away. WHen she died she asked Jesus why he never showed up at her house that night and he told her that he showed up 3 times and she shewed him away!
Have u ever heard the story about the woman who was expecting Jesus to shwo up for dinner? first a lame man came and she shewed him away, then a poor man came and she shwewed him away. Then a blind man came and she shewed him away. WHen she died she asked Jesus why he never showed up at her house that night and he told her that he showed up 3 times and she shewed him away!
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Nice thoughts Zeroturbulence.
My perspective is if God is in control of our lives shouldn't one believe God has the perfect one and only for you?
Have you prayed for that person.
If you then have faith that God then has prepared that one special someone just for you
the one that helps strengthen you, cares for you understands you more than anybody and maybe even better than you know yourself.
When God brings that person to you will you be able to recognize it?
Waiting on God's timing or filling your time with dating other people out of loneliness and possibly missing the chance by being distracted.
God wouldn't make your one and only perfect match without at least letting you meet them.
When God brings you that one perfect person will you be able to recognize it or will you be distracted from being in a worldly relationship, or setting standards of worldly discrimination such as race, color, age, financial status, height, hair color etc. I know we all do that but is it what God would have us do?
God knows whats best for you, so when you settle, or God brings that person to you do you say Ahhh thanks anyway never mind its not what I was expecting, or my standards have to be met first God so I'll keep looking on my own.
Guess what, he's gonna say yeah you do that, see how well it works out for ya, I had more for you than you could have ever imagined. His will be done not ours. Don't be in a hurry choosing to do it your way,
Instead of looking for "The One" ....make yourself the one as is outlined in the bible and not by worldly standards, and they will come to you.
and no offense meant to anybody, but God's plan is the blessed one.
My perspective is if God is in control of our lives shouldn't one believe God has the perfect one and only for you?
Have you prayed for that person.
If you then have faith that God then has prepared that one special someone just for you
the one that helps strengthen you, cares for you understands you more than anybody and maybe even better than you know yourself.
When God brings that person to you will you be able to recognize it?
Waiting on God's timing or filling your time with dating other people out of loneliness and possibly missing the chance by being distracted.
God wouldn't make your one and only perfect match without at least letting you meet them.
When God brings you that one perfect person will you be able to recognize it or will you be distracted from being in a worldly relationship, or setting standards of worldly discrimination such as race, color, age, financial status, height, hair color etc. I know we all do that but is it what God would have us do?
God knows whats best for you, so when you settle, or God brings that person to you do you say Ahhh thanks anyway never mind its not what I was expecting, or my standards have to be met first God so I'll keep looking on my own.
Guess what, he's gonna say yeah you do that, see how well it works out for ya, I had more for you than you could have ever imagined. His will be done not ours. Don't be in a hurry choosing to do it your way,
Instead of looking for "The One" ....make yourself the one as is outlined in the bible and not by worldly standards, and they will come to you.
and no offense meant to anybody, but God's plan is the blessed one.
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J
Exactly. You may have your different preferences when it comes to personality, interests, etc. But I have many guy friends at church who are awesome men of God. I don't click with any of them in terms of interests and personality, but they are amazing and great to hang out with (not to mention absolutely hilarious and entertaining). Imperfect, as zeroturbulence points out, but you have to look past that. It's possible that the ones that you've tried dating are not as mature as you'd hope for, and that's fine. Everyone matures at a different rate. But I promise, there are plenty of good Christian guys out there.
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Not all christian boys are the best. I, myself am dating an athiest at the moment.
His best friend is a good christian boy, always goes to church, believes heavily in the bible, rejoices him, prays. Everything. He's not into drinking, smoking or drugs or sex before marriage.
So you'd think he's perfect for a christian girl. I'm just saying he's not. He's whiny, irritable all of the time, he's 16 going on 7. He acts very immature. He doesn't know how to take no for an answer. And he's tried splitting me and my boyfriend up.
What I'm trying to say is, don't only look at their religion, mainly go for their personality. Because I NEVER thought in a million years I'd be dating someone who doesn't believe in God. But I am, and I'm madly in love with him.
His best friend is a good christian boy, always goes to church, believes heavily in the bible, rejoices him, prays. Everything. He's not into drinking, smoking or drugs or sex before marriage.
So you'd think he's perfect for a christian girl. I'm just saying he's not. He's whiny, irritable all of the time, he's 16 going on 7. He acts very immature. He doesn't know how to take no for an answer. And he's tried splitting me and my boyfriend up.
What I'm trying to say is, don't only look at their religion, mainly go for their personality. Because I NEVER thought in a million years I'd be dating someone who doesn't believe in God. But I am, and I'm madly in love with him.
J
Not all christian boys are the best. I, myself am dating an athiest at the moment.
His best friend is a good christian boy, always goes to church, believes heavily in the bible, rejoices him, prays. Everything. He's not into drinking, smoking or drugs or sex before marriage.
So you'd think he's perfect for a christian girl. I'm just saying he's not. He's whiny, irritable all of the time, he's 16 going on 7. He acts very immature. He doesn't know how to take no for an answer. And he's tried splitting me and my boyfriend up.
What I'm trying to say is, don't only look at their religion, mainly go for their personality. Because I NEVER thought in a million years I'd be dating someone who doesn't believe in God. But I am, and I'm madly in love with him.
His best friend is a good christian boy, always goes to church, believes heavily in the bible, rejoices him, prays. Everything. He's not into drinking, smoking or drugs or sex before marriage.
So you'd think he's perfect for a christian girl. I'm just saying he's not. He's whiny, irritable all of the time, he's 16 going on 7. He acts very immature. He doesn't know how to take no for an answer. And he's tried splitting me and my boyfriend up.
What I'm trying to say is, don't only look at their religion, mainly go for their personality. Because I NEVER thought in a million years I'd be dating someone who doesn't believe in God. But I am, and I'm madly in love with him.
Please pray about this. A lot of precious christian young ladies have been seduced from the faith by such things. Now is when it begins to count. Your life will be the sum of your decisions. Your decision for Christ...excellent. You choice in a bf....