Why being a recluse may be the bad idea for the single Christian woman

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pete13

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Being the physically weaker gender, the natural instinct of the Christian woman in these end times may be to run for cover so that she can avoid dating evil male creeps who are on the prowl. But it’s just a shame that such a woman doesn’t know that being a recluse will probably get her that evil male creep. The creep you are running from by being reclusive is the bad guy, right? i.e the guy that will be unfaithful, i.e the devil.


But the devil knows you already, the devil knows the day you were born, the devil knows your name and where you live meaning that the devil can always send his agent in the form of a false Christian man to meet you anyway. So being a recluse in order to avoid a creep is not the way. All you will achieve by being a recluse is to make sure your true Christian love doesn’t find you. When you then end up with the male creep, you will be like “all men are evil” but you will be wrong, your true love was out there but you were a no show and the devil took advantage of this to send his agent to meet you in your place of recluse.


You need to ask yourself if you are doing all in your power to find your true love. Have you exhausted all possible avenues where you can find your true love? If you just believe in sitting down and waiting to be found since after all ”a woman's heart should be so hidden in God that a man has to seek Him just to find her” then you may just be found by the devils agent whilst your true love searches for you in vain.
 
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Ugly

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/reads first line... Remembers seeing Elizabeth posting today... Runs for cover
 
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crosstweed

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pete13 said:
Being the physically weaker gender, the natural instinct of the Christian woman in these end times may be to run for cover so that she can avoid dating evil male creeps who are on the prowl. But it’s just a shame that such a woman doesn’t know that being a recluse will probably get her that evil male creep. The creep you are running from by being reclusive is the bad guy, right? i.e the guy that will be unfaithful, i.e the devil.


But the devil knows you already, the devil knows the day you were born, the devil knows your name and where you live meaning that the devil can always send his agent in the form of a false Christian man to meet you anyway. So being a recluse in order to avoid a creep is not the way. All you will achieve by being a recluse is to make sure your true Christian love doesn’t find you. When you then end up with the male creep, you will be like “all men are evil” but you will be wrong, your true love was out there but you were a no show and the devil took advantage of this to send his agent to meet you in your place of recluse.


You need to ask yourself if you are doing all in your power to find your true love. Have you exhausted all possible avenues where you can find your true love? If you just believe in sitting down and waiting to be found since after all ”a woman's heart should be so hidden in God that a man has to seek Him just to find her” then you may just be found by the devils agent whilst your true love searches for you in vain.
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Ohh, I get it...

So God is incapable of directing a solid Christian man to a socially timid or withdrawn woman, and she has to inevitably end up with a creep who is posing as a Christian... (And, knowing her luck, is probably also Satan himself.)

Makes perfect sense.





Also, this guy has been here before, as I'm sure you will all remember.
 
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pete13 said:
Being the physically weaker gender, the natural instinct of the Christian woman in these end times may be to run for cover so that she can avoid dating evil male creeps who are on the prowl. But it’s just a shame that such a woman doesn’t know that being a recluse will probably get her that evil male creep. The creep you are running from by being reclusive is the bad guy, right? i.e the guy that will be unfaithful, i.e the devil.


But the devil knows you already, the devil knows the day you were born, the devil knows your name and where you live meaning that the devil can always send his agent in the form of a false Christian man to meet you anyway. So being a recluse in order to avoid a creep is not the way. All you will achieve by being a recluse is to make sure your true Christian love doesn’t find you. When you then end up with the male creep, you will be like “all men are evil” but you will be wrong, your true love was out there but you were a no show and the devil took advantage of this to send his agent to meet you in your place of recluse.


You need to ask yourself if you are doing all in your power to find your true love. Have you exhausted all possible avenues where you can find your true love? If you just believe in sitting down and waiting to be found since after all ”a woman's heart should be so hidden in God that a man has to seek Him just to find her” then you may just be found by the devils agent whilst your true love searches for you in vain.
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Dude, your posts creep me out. It seems like that recluse lifestyle worked wonders for you.
 
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pete13 said:
Being the physically weaker gender, the natural instinct of the Christian woman in these end times may be to run for cover so that she can avoid dating evil male creeps who are on the prowl. But it’s just a shame that such a woman doesn’t know that being a recluse will probably get her that evil male creep. The creep you are running from by being reclusive is the bad guy, right? i.e the guy that will be unfaithful, i.e the devil.


But the devil knows you already, the devil knows the day you were born, the devil knows your name and where you live meaning that the devil can always send his agent in the form of a false Christian man to meet you anyway. So being a recluse in order to avoid a creep is not the way. All you will achieve by being a recluse is to make sure your true Christian love doesn’t find you. When you then end up with the male creep, you will be like “all men are evil” but you will be wrong, your true love was out there but you were a no show and the devil took advantage of this to send his agent to meet you in your place of recluse.


You need to ask yourself if you are doing all in your power to find your true love. Have you exhausted all possible avenues where you can find your true love? If you just believe in sitting down and waiting to be found since after all ”a woman's heart should be so hidden in God that a man has to seek Him just to find her” then you may just be found by the devils agent whilst your true love searches for you in vain.
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My our premise is flawed. Women can't hide away and expect a good man to fall in their lap. They need to get out and mingle and be social. But a woman can hide away and expect Saran to drop a bad guy in her lap.
So satan can do what God can't?

Rather than condescending to women by insulting them and telling them they are trying to to date the Devil (what???) and how they need to go seek out a man, why not instead encourage them to seek God first? To say that seeking God should be their priority and encourage that, instead of focusing on finding a man? And doing so without making assumptions and talking down about them.

My my experience is that women who become reclusive do so because of emotional damage, not because they are physically weaker. And guess what. Some men do the same thing for the same reason, so I'm not sure how this is a woman's issue.
A lot of flaws, as I said before.
 
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crosstweed

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”a woman's heart should be so hidden in God that a man has to seek Him just to find her”



Dude, you are so busted. You've totally been on here before with a whole thread dedicated to this idiotic topic. That was even the title of the thread you posted...
 
shineyourlight

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I just wanted to like this post to troll everyone.
 
Lynx

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But what if the woman is hiding because she knows she's a demon? What if she's... um... a repentant demon who wants to spare the men who would be attracted to her?

And if God sent a man to her, how would the man know she was not a demon? Hmmm...

Better to not risk it. Forever alone, forever safe from the demons in human form. =^.^=
 
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crosstweed

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Interesting. I seemed to recall that he's been banned, but I was mistaken. He just went dormant for a while.
 
zeroturbulence

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All he's saying is that if you simply sit around hoping love will show up on your doorstep, the devil can easily send someone to fool you and ruin your hope for love and your view of men.. :rolleyes:

The exact same goes for guys too...
 
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faith96

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From a single man's point of view and my associations with other single men and women of all ages, the attitudes and intentions a very age dependent. Young men in late teens and early 20's are trying to find their place in the world and broaden their experiences to enable them to nature appropriately athe the right pace as they grow up so may go out 'of the prowl' for a bit of no strings fun but a man in his mid 30's is comfortable with himself and has nothing to prove and his attitude towards women is mature and paced with a relaxed natural way of interacting with women as equals. I am 36 and don't go out 'on the pull' as we say in Britain I have done all my chasing and now let nature take its course to allow a more spontaneous natural encounter and introduction to a woman. The difficulty arises that of you don't venture further afield you will never meet a woman you don't already know.
 
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crosstweed

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pete13 said:
The creep you are running from by being reclusive is the bad guy, right?
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But the devil knows you already, the devil knows the day you were born, the devil knows your name and where you live meaning that the devil can always send his agent in the form of a false Christian man to meet you anyway
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...and the devil took advantage of this to send his agent to meet you in your place of recluse.
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If you just believe in sitting down and waiting to be found since after all ”a woman's heart should be so hidden in God that a man has to seek Him just to find her” then you may just be found by the devils agent whilst your true love searches for you in vain.
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So, the solution ladies, is to shoot any nicely dressed young men that come to your doorstep before they can say a word with their forked tongues, because they're obviously the devil. :cool:

Oh, wait... those are probably Jehovah's Witnesses...
 
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Hellooo

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But a recluse doesn't run the risk of being with a demonic shape-shifter
 
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But a recluse doesn't run the risk of being with a demonic shape-shifter
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Exactly. Foiled again! Back to the drawing board. Or should that be ouija board?
 
Dino246

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... But a woman can hide away and expect Saran to drop a bad guy in her lap...
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Saran... capable of all manner of evil. There was once a movie of these evil deeds, but it was a rather thin, plastic film...
 
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crosstweed

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Saran... capable of all manner of evil. There was once a movie of these evil deeds, but it was a rather thin, plastic film...
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:rolleyes: I have to admit that I laughed pretty hard when I read that... But I wasn't going to say anything.
 
Lynx

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Dino246 said:
Saran... capable of all manner of evil. There was once a movie of these evil deeds, but it was a rather thin, plastic film...
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Yeah, I hear the plot was a tangled mess too.
 
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